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Re: making the silent battle...not. 29 Nov 2010 13:33 #87157

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	No, I wouldn't have. But I do think that I am able to see her as more completely beautiful and always attractive than I would be able to if I wouldn't be in recovery. There are other reasons, though, that might have prevented me from going through with things - feel free to Pm me for details.
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 01 Dec 2010 15:51 #87474

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	We need to light up the world - and the only way to do that is by lighting up ourselves. No, not by pouring oil on ourselves and lighting ourselves on fire. That would hurt.
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 01 Dec 2010 19:28 #87508

Eye.nonymous OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2696 Karma: 15	silentbattle wrote on 01 Dec 2010 15:51: We need to light up the world - and the only way to do that is by lighting up ourselves. No, not by pouring oil on ourselves and lighting ourselves on fire. That would hurt. SAVE THE OIL FOR THE LATKES!
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 01 Dec 2010 19:41 #87516

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	organic tofu latkes need oil?
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: making the silent battle...not. 01 Dec 2010 20:01 #87524

Eye.nonymous OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2696 Karma: 15	ZemirosShabbos wrote on 01 Dec 2010 19:41: organic tofu latkes need oil? Kol Sh'kain!
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 01 Dec 2010 22:44 #87552

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	;D
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 02 Dec 2010 04:25 #87578

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	Tov hu. Say it fast a few times. :o
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same." Last Edit: by .

Re: making the silent battle...not. 02 Dec 2010 18:10 #87697

Eye.nonymous OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2696 Karma: 15	dov wrote on 02 Dec 2010 04:25: Tov hu. Say it fast a few times. :o MORE LIKE TO-HU.
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 02 Dec 2010 18:17 #87699

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	no, hu's on first...
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: making the silent battle...not. 02 Dec 2010 18:21 #87702

Eye.nonymous OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2696 Karma: 15	I think Horten heard a HU.
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 02 Dec 2010 19:47 #87732

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	Man, you guys are HUrrible.
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 02 Dec 2010 20:14 #87746

Yosef Hatzadik OFFLINE Platinum Boarder A GYE'er since 2010 Posts: 2986 Karma: 10	HUH?
	*Yosef Hatzadik's Ha'oros* *Tov veyoshor Hashem al kein yoreh chata'im baderech!* Last Edit: by .

Re: making the silent battle...not. 02 Dec 2010 20:30 #87750

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	;D nice!
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 03 Dec 2010 06:41 #87812

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	Today, during Modim, I thanked hashem for my wonderful wife. It's important for me to appreciate how much He's done for me, but also important for me to focus on how good my wife is. Sometimes, it can be easy to forget.
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 05 Dec 2010 03:42 #87913

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The relationship my wife and I have on any given day is a strong indicator of my recovery itself. It isn't everything, cuz I am powerless to change her and, in the end, I am powerless over her choices. But the way I feel with her and about her immediately shows me how comfortable I am with myself, how needy I am, how focused I am on the big stuff like being useful, doing Hashem's Will, stuff like that.

I mean, she's like - the most important person in my life, no? And she's right here - unless I run away by making myself too busy....and that shows a lot about where I am holding with facing real life.

Oh...lighten-up? ...OK,OK.

"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

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