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Re: making the silent battle...not. 04 Mar 2010 03:12 #56222

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Hope your day was good!
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 04 Mar 2010 03:17 #56227

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Thank you, Sci! It was good...

Dov - your questions are very deep, but people have very strong opinions on the eating habits of fat babys with wings, so let's leave this conversation off the forum, OK?  :D :D
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 04 Mar 2010 17:09 #56337

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Lot of stress right now, but this is my chance to get close to hashem.

Take a deep breath, and repeat that to myself.
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 05 Mar 2010 01:45 #56457

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Keep on trucking and lots to have us think about.
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 05 Mar 2010 16:02 #56522

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Very true...thank you for reminding me of that! 

The last few days, I've been having a very strong urge to "self-medicate." Today, I just calmly faced the urge and said, "I realize that I have this desire, but that doesn't mean I have to act on it. The desire isn't me."
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 05 Mar 2010 18:38 #56572

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Great way to understand that.  KUTGW!!
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 07 Mar 2010 01:16 #56627

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Thanks, Sci!

The urges are continuing. I'm looking at my last post - need to remember to keep saying that. When the disease tells me how great it will be to give in, how I need to - it's simply not true.

I also need to realize that the urges are coming from the added stress in my life.

I think that starting to exercise regularly will help a little bit. I just need to stop being lazy!
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 07 Mar 2010 09:07 #56676

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Excercise is a great idea SB.
And an added bonus is that it will prevent you from looking like that cherub...! :D
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 07 Mar 2010 17:04 #56706

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Can I at least carry around a bow and arrow? ;D
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 07 Mar 2010 18:21 #56720

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Depends who it's aimed at!
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 07 Mar 2010 18:27 #56724

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I was thinking about your comment that you didn't have to act on it.  I think that is a great comment.  it's like you know you don't want to act out, but reminding yourself not to is inspiring.  Thanks for the words.
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 08 Mar 2010 01:45 #56816

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7up:  :D I only aim it away from people - just like soda bottles, when opening.

Sci - exactly. We know, deep down that it's not something we want to do, but remembering that all the time can be difficult.
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 08 Mar 2010 03:06 #56844

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SB thanks for the shiur from R' Kelerman....

I posted it on my thread....

Peace and Love Holy Brother.........
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 08 Mar 2010 05:37 #56867

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Gevalt my sweetest friend!
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Re: making the silent battle...not. 09 Mar 2010 01:12 #57063

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humor. chizuk. conversation. this thread embodies what GUE is about. SB, you updates are extremely useful to everyone. how's your day going?
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