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My Upcoming Dilemma
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A platform of recovery for Jews who find themselves struggling with addictions to pornography, masturbation or other sexual problems. Post anonymously about your struggles without fear of anyone finding out who you are. Ask questions, post answers and be inspired! Get tips and guidance from the experts who moderate this forum, as well as from fellow strugglers.
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Re: My Upcoming Dilemma 25 Apr 2017 13:06 #311401

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Markz wrote on 25 Apr 2017 00:35:

Shivisi_Hashem wrote on 25 Apr 2017 00:01:
hhilarious  too short notice! will i be rewarded?

Here's a select sample of the most requested prizes 

#1. You get dov to post on your thread
#2. You glimpse light at the end of the tunnel
#3. Trouble visits your thread

I got #3 for free. I'll never be zoche to #1 
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

One day... At A Time :-D


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Re: My Upcoming Dilemma 25 Apr 2017 13:19 #311405

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im so excited to update you, i stayed sober yesterday night, in my wildest dream 3 weeks ago i wouldnt believe that I will stay clean such a night without my wife on site, the nights when my wife used to be away, vacation or summer monthes was used to be the most dirty ones, i just cant imagine that i successfully finished yesterday's TODAY clean, i was so affraid of a fall.
i have to admit, that it popped into my mind a few times some thoughts, like touching and pleasuring my self, but i pushed it away in the second it came to my mind, i didnt let it come to fruition, and im so happy with my self.
so again, אודה לד' מאד בפי, i prayed so much the last few days that this few days should pass בשלום, so im happy that one day has gone clean.
i spend at night reading the GYE handbook, and FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING thread, there is a lot of good stuff there, thank you Markz, you are the guy.
i dont know what by the end hold me back, and to stay clean, 1) that ill be depressed, ashamed and having to start day one again, 2) reading on our forums, and the support from all of you , or both, ill leave that to you to decide.
let me finish with my biggest THANK YOU  for all our great חברים לדבר מצוה you were my support, without you, i would never be what im today, you will definitely sahre the שכר בעוה"ב.
im so excited, i feel like a million dollars.
lets focus again today only for TODAY.
will keep you posted again tomorrow morning.
My email:jacdoja@gmail.com
My threads: my long נסיעה of almost 30 years ~ My Book of Business ~ My Upcoming Dilemma

להטות לבבנו אליו ללכת בכל דרכיו ולשמר מצותיו וחקיו ומשפטיו אשר צוה את אבתינו
כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים

Re: My Upcoming Dilemma 25 Apr 2017 13:27 #311407

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Shivisi_Hashem wrote on 25 Apr 2017 13:19:
im so excited to update you, i stayed sober yesterday night, in my wildest dream 3 weeks ago i wouldnt believe that I will stay clean such a night without my wife on site, the nights when my wife used to be away, vacation or summer monthes was used to be the most dirty ones, i just cant imagine that i successfully finished yesterday's TODAY clean, i was so affraid of a fall.
i have to admit, that it popped into my mind a few times some thoughts, like touching and pleasuring my self, but i pushed it away in the second it came to my mind, i didnt let it come to fruition, and im so happy with my self.
so again, אודה לד' מאד בפי, i prayed so much the last few days that this few days should pass בשלום, so im happy that one day has gone clean.
i spend at night reading the GYE handbook, and FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING thread, there is a lot of good stuff there, thank you Markz, you are the guy.
i dont know what by the end hold me back, and to stay clean, 1) that ill be depressed, ashamed and having to start day one again, 2) reading on our forums, and the support from all of you , or both, ill leave that to you to decide.
let me finish with my biggest THANK YOU  for all our great חברים לדבר מצוה you were my support, without you, i would never be what im today, you will definitely sahre the שכר בעוה"ב.
im so excited, i feel like a million dollars.
lets focus again today only for TODAY.
will keep you posted again tomorrow morning.

I love your attitude and your desire and need for recovery.
KOMT

Re: My Upcoming Dilemma 26 Apr 2017 14:51 #311609

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I had a great and clean night, my wife is coming home tonight, so I can close for now my My Upcoming Dilemma , I would like to thank you all for your support, especially Markz, with his great links at his signature, that saved me, not to mention my punishment,  when my wife is away It used to be my lowest time, with no control at all, not thinking a bit what it will feel after the act, but now, as a GYE member, I had my highest time, I'm soooo happy for that, I feel so good.
what it help me overall, Might help others in time of need, support from all of you, the Handbook, Reading forums, and at once when I was in an emergency situation, I went out on my porch and wrote 50 times a slogan..... LoL.... that cooled me down.
next time home alone? in the summer, 8 full weeks, will discuss then..
My email:jacdoja@gmail.com
My threads: my long נסיעה of almost 30 years ~ My Book of Business ~ My Upcoming Dilemma

להטות לבבנו אליו ללכת בכל דרכיו ולשמר מצותיו וחקיו ומשפטיו אשר צוה את אבתינו
כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים
Last Edit: 26 Apr 2017 14:51 by Shivisi_Hashem.

Re: My Upcoming Dilemma 26 Apr 2017 18:12 #311624

Beautiful job

​I think the greatest part was that youwere not afraid/embarrassed to reach out and find the help you needed
A real inspiration

KOMT 
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h











very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: My Upcoming Dilemma 27 Apr 2017 04:57 #311675

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 26 Apr 2017 18:12:
Beautiful job

​I think the greatest part was that youwere not afraid/embarrassed to reach out and find the help you needed
A real inspiration

KOMT 



That is so important!
My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.

Re: My Upcoming Dilemma 27 Apr 2017 08:30 #311683

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A very very great inspiration !

And like others said, the most important was to seek for help and not being blocked by addiction saying : "You can do it alone ! It's a big shame to talk about it with others !"
And one day at a time too.

Hachem may see all your efforts with a big warm smile, and keep these clean days into your gold vault for always
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