So for me doing something else is critical.

Here are my 2 cents (or shall  I say 2  pence )

There is 2 issues: if we look at the past "acting out" as a "sin" then as believing Jews, we believe b'emunah shliemah in the concept of Tshuvah. Which in our case is quite simple, we stop, we regret, we say viduy!! Then............as a believer we know that we are in the eyes of the Almighty as a "new" person who never sinned! That's right the new you has no conection with the old guy!!

On the other hand if we view our past "acting out" as an addiction, then we are dealing with a sickness that needs to be treated. Period!!

Again no need for feeling as a hypocrite and to throw out the computer! All we need to do is get treatment for our "lust disease"!!

Its really simple but then again I've been hanging out here with Rabienu Guard and Rabienu Dov

Guard in his Attitude "kuntras" deals with this all at great length! Read it u won't regret it

My most heartfelt prayers for your success on the 90 day journey. Take us all along by posting along the way

All the love in the world to a fellow warrior

Noorah the smallest from the house of Amram