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Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 19:26 #300598

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will Succeed Beh wrote on 20 Dec 2016 19:25:
Gotta go,

Sorry Quiet didnt yet manage to change the pic.... will do BEH!

They don't call you BEH for nothing...Sort of like Nachum Ish Gam zu

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 19:32 #300602

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will Succeed Beh wrote on 20 Dec 2016 19:24:

quiet wrote on 20 Dec 2016 19:20:

will Succeed Beh wrote on 20 Dec 2016 19:07:
Hi Yosef 

I think that the answer from your Rov about your son, was the right thing, as even if he dosent do anything except the password, it WILL give him some excitement in computers & technology, which could generate further places that would you wouldnt want .....

About your Rov that didnt understand, i can somewhat relate as i cant imagine confiding my Rov, as he's probably got similar understanding to your's. I suggest maybe next time find some Mashpia that has got a Da'as Torah and understands technology & our Nisyones. Just make sure not to fool yourself, take someone that will understand you and help you, but not someone that will agree to you on everything and will be easier for you.

Looking forward hearing from you, but meanwhile it seems you'v got some Mehalech! so keep on.

I respectfully disagree. I do not see anything questionable about what your Rav told you especially in light of my last post.

But a person needs someone to respect his pace and level, and as well give him that feeling!

I agree. I reread what Yosef wrote and I did not see a lack of understanding from the part of his rabbi (although Yosef had to explain himself). In fact, it seems he agreed on at least one of Yosef's points after it was explained. It his wife that does not understand him and like many of our wives. That is a big problem. That is why I would rather rely on someone else than my wife. Some shul policies say the wife should have your password. I have a friend on GYE have it for me instead. No reason this should have to escalate to a shalom bayis problem, especially for us at GYE who have it a little harder than most

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 19:36 #300604

The support and understanding, I'm kind of hoping to get HERE.
The Rov is straight/yashar and fine.
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Cold Turkey means NO streaming videos at all ever...ever....in the time limits...outside the time limits...
Sorry if I wasn't clear.
If I didn't go Cold Turkey, then nobody would help me, since they would feel that they are helping me do an aveira, since the Rov said that there is absolutely no heter to see a woman in short sleeves.
So now ALL internet is off, except for several exclusions, which are individually listed. This website, my email, and a few others. That's what I call Cold Turkey. And this is my 3rd helping, because it was too restrictive and failed twice before. Now, that I have a mehalech and the Rov is somehow involved, thank you, Watson for that, maybe I stand a better chance of succeeding.
My family is more behind me than the last 2 times too. AND I can't just change it on my own, like the last 2 times, since I now only have the first 1/2 of the password.
Last Edit: 20 Dec 2016 19:37 by Yosef Tikun HaYesod.

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 19:42 #300605

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will Succeed Beh wrote:
Gotta go,

Sorry Quiet didnt yet manage to change the pic.... will do BEH!

I like the giraffe 

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 19:45 #300607

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Yosef Tikun HaYesod wrote on 20 Dec 2016 19:36:
The support and understanding, I'm kind of hoping to get HERE.
The Rov is straight/yashar and fine.
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Cold Turkey means NO streaming videos at all ever...ever....in the time limits...outside the time limits...
Sorry if I wasn't clear.
If I didn't go Cold Turkey, then nobody would help me, since they would feel that they are helping me do an aveira, since the Rov said that there is absolutely no heter to see a woman in short sleeves.
So now ALL internet is off, except for several exclusions, which are individually listed. This website, my email, and a few others. That's what I call Cold Turkey. And this is my 3rd helping, because it was too restrictive and failed twice before. Now, that I have a mehalech and the Rov is somehow involved, thank you, Watson for that, maybe I stand a better chance of succeeding.
My family is more behind me than the last 2 times too. AND I can't just change it on my own, like the last 2 times, since I now only have the first 1/2 of the password.

My dear Yosef

שמו ביהוסף עדות  - I cannot get Hebrew words in correct order

Though the radak makes light of the matter, Yosef is spelled with an extra Heh.
This Heh was/could be used in the upcoming parsha for Yosef to fight the nisyonos of Eishes Potiphar (forgot her first name and I am too frum to call married ladies by first name). In addition to Hashem giving you an extra letter, I am giving you a karma to mechazek your bravery of putting yourself in a difficult situation l'maan Hashem

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 19:46 #300608

I like the giraffe too...
it's like we are sticking our necks out to improve and change for the better...
and allow ourselves to be honest and vulnerable.
Please keep it!

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 19:47 #300609

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LifneiHashem wrote on 20 Dec 2016 19:42:

will Succeed Beh wrote:
Gotta go,

Sorry Quiet didnt yet manage to change the pic.... will do BEH!

I like the giraffe 

I like the giraffe on Zemiros Shabbos Avatar, but I lose my confidence when even a lowly animal sticks his tongue out at me. But that is my problem WS is going lifnim mishuras hadin and for that he will get a karma

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 19:51 #300610

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Singularity,

Are you familiar with this song on the other side of Atlantic?

Someone from UK on this thread said he never heard of it. I cannot believe it:
put in youtube first. This forum is stripping my youtube link. Just for listening (due to animated girl in short sleeves)
watch?v=0IvC6fZYGMM
Last Edit: 20 Dec 2016 19:54 by quiet.

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 20:00 #300612

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Yosef Tikun HaYesod wrote on 20 Dec 2016 19:46:
I like the giraffe too...
it's like we are sticking our necks out to improve and change for the better...
and allow ourselves to be honest and vulnerable.
Please keep it!

I like the stuck out tongue if that means anything to anyone.
smile

You can't make everyone happy, you are not pizza.

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 20:04 #300613

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shua73 wrote on 20 Dec 2016 20:00:

Yosef Tikun HaYesod wrote on 20 Dec 2016 19:46:
I like the giraffe too...
it's like we are sticking our necks out to improve and change for the better...
and allow ourselves to be honest and vulnerable.
Please keep it!

I like the stuck out tongue if that means anything to anyone.

"Et tuBrute?"

?!?!?!?!?
Last Edit: 20 Dec 2016 20:05 by quiet.

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 20:08 #300614

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shua73 wrote on 20 Dec 2016 20:00:

Yosef Tikun HaYesod wrote on 20 Dec 2016 19:46:
I like the giraffe too...
it's like we are sticking our necks out to improve and change for the better...
and allow ourselves to be honest and vulnerable.
Please keep it!

I like the stuck out tongue if that means anything to anyone.

Double wammie. You replaced Victory Falls with a (rich) smurf?????????????????????????????????

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 20:24 #300618

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GYE is a new addiction for me. So for the past couple days, whenever I want to watch youTUBE, I have decided to go to GYE instead. It is a form of entertainment and I can be helped (and possibly help as well)

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 21:29 #300628

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Thank you all for the warm support to my Lovely Giraffe
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!

I'v changed my picture as a gesture towards our dear friend Quiet  !

BTW Shua i like your new Picture!
BE"H WE WILL ALL SUCCEED
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טאטע! אפילו איך שפיר זיך ווייט פון דיר, אוי אוי אוי
ווייס איך אז די ביסט נאנט צו מיר אזוי, אוי אוי אוי
מיט ליבשאפט ווי אן איינציג קינד, פון בענקשאפט א טרערעלע רינט
ואהבת עולם, אהבת עולם אהבתיך
Last Edit: 20 Dec 2016 21:41 by will Succeed Beh.

Re: Group 196 20 Dec 2016 21:31 #300629

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quiet wrote on 20 Dec 2016 19:51:
Singularity,

Are you familiar with this song on the other side of Atlantic?

Someone from UK on this thread said he never heard of it. I cannot believe it:
put in youtube first. This forum is stripping my youtube link. Just for listening (due to animated girl in short sleeves)
watch?v=0IvC6fZYGMM

Sorry youtube closed on my filter!
BE"H WE WILL ALL SUCCEED
My Thread
Mini Community
טאטע! אפילו איך שפיר זיך ווייט פון דיר, אוי אוי אוי
ווייס איך אז די ביסט נאנט צו מיר אזוי, אוי אוי אוי
מיט ליבשאפט ווי אן איינציג קינד, פון בענקשאפט א טרערעלע רינט
ואהבת עולם, אהבת עולם אהבתיך

Re: Group 196 21 Dec 2016 00:57 #300642

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Yosef Tikun HaYesod wrote on 20 Dec 2016 19:36:
The support and understanding, I'm kind of hoping to get HERE.
The Rov is straight/yashar and fine.
------------
Cold Turkey means NO streaming videos at all ever...ever....in the time limits...outside the time limits...
Sorry if I wasn't clear.
If I didn't go Cold Turkey, then nobody would help me, since they would feel that they are helping me do an aveira, since the Rov said that there is absolutely no heter to see a woman in short sleeves.
So now ALL internet is off, except for several exclusions, which are individually listed. This website, my email, and a few others. That's what I call Cold Turkey. And this is my 3rd helping, because it was too restrictive and failed twice before. Now, that I have a mehalech and the Rov is somehow involved, thank you, Watson for that, maybe I stand a better chance of succeeding.
My family is more behind me than the last 2 times too. AND I can't just change it on my own, like the last 2 times, since I now only have the first 1/2 of the password.

Seems like you're gonna just have to post allways now that you've only got access to gye or just send emails. Heck, you might be like that guy who has been calling me forever about how my Dell laptop is broken or someone is trying to hack into my computer and he needs to install a program to fix it.

Good luck
smile

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