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Re: about to visit a massage parlor 23 Mar 2016 04:13 #282251

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Dov wrote on 22 Mar 2016 22:38:

It is definitely helpful.  Thanks for the reality check. Truth is I am a bit uncomfortable using the words 'I am an addict'. I guess the way I feel is that I'm on the fence about whether I have "The Problem", but I'm pretty sure I want The Solution

Re: about to visit a massage parlor 23 Mar 2016 04:36 #282254

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thanks613 wrote on 23 Mar 2016 04:13:

Dov wrote on 22 Mar 2016 22:38:

 

It is definitely helpful.  Thanks for the reality check. Truth is I am a bit uncomfortable using the words 'I am an addict'. I guess the way I feel is that I'm on the fence about whether I have "The Problem", but I'm pretty sure I want The Solution

Yisro - even though he was a ba'al Teshuva and a ger tzedek - was sent home before matan Torah (according to many rishonim) and could not be there for it...because he was not in the enslavement with the other Jews. He couldn't get the sweet goodies without first having been in the toilet with the rest of us.

It's not likely that anyone can get the Solution, if you don't have the Problem.

And acting the way those who admit they have the problem act, is a real good segulah for getting the same goodies that they get in their recovery. I am not foretelling, just sharing an observation you can ignore, disagree with, or accept and then just live with.

'nuff said
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."
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