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Re: 12 Step Virtual Meeting (Please read first post) 03 Dec 2015 17:13 #270290

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When faced with a difficult situation, I try to remember that I am powerless over lust and remind myself that although it always seems like a good idea, escaping from reality had never solved any problems before, and in fact, had just dug me deeper into the hole I find myself in. Instead, I text a friend, letting him know I am surrendering the obsession to Hashem, and add a short tefillah asking Him to remove my deficiencies and help me with this particular challenge.
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Re: 12 Step Virtual Meeting (Please read first post) 03 Dec 2015 17:40 #270297

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Hi, I have been working on my surrender in my daily live. Saying the serenity prayer often. I find it helps me in amazing ways. I also utilize the CODA serenity prayer which goes like this: "God grant me the serenity to accept the PEOPLE I cannot change, the courage to change the ONE that I can, and the wisdom to know that it is ME."
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I will not act out today, I will tomorrow. Maybe when I get to tomorrow, it will again be 'today'

Re: 12 Step Virtual Meeting (Please read first post) 04 Dec 2015 13:13 #270425

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We realize we know only a little. God will constantly disclose more to you and to us. Ask Him in your morning meditation what you can do each day for the man who is still sick. The answers will come, if your own house is in order. But obviously you cannot transmit something you haven't got. See to it that your relationship with Him is right, and great events will come to pass for you and countless others. This is the Great Fact for us.
Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Road of Happy Destiny.
May God bless you and keep you-until then.
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Life is Like a Bicycle: If its easy, you're going downhill
Hashem, If I can't have what I want, then please teach me to want what I have -Unknown (and if u know who it was please inform me)
(1+2)x4=3
There is NOTHING wrong with feeling pain -My Sponsor
I will not act out today, I will tomorrow. Maybe when I get to tomorrow, it will again be 'today'
Last Edit: 04 Dec 2015 13:13 by lizhensk.

Re: 12 Step Virtual Meeting (Please read first post) 06 Dec 2015 18:26 #270573

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Life is Like a Bicycle: If its easy, you're going downhill
Hashem, If I can't have what I want, then please teach me to want what I have -Unknown (and if u know who it was please inform me)
(1+2)x4=3
There is NOTHING wrong with feeling pain -My Sponsor
I will not act out today, I will tomorrow. Maybe when I get to tomorrow, it will again be 'today'

Re: 12 Step Virtual Meeting (Please read first post) 06 Dec 2015 19:44 #270580

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Lizhensk wrote:
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Why a different thread for week 2?
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Re: 12 Step Virtual Meeting (Please read first post) 07 Dec 2015 02:54 #270610

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cordnoy wrote:
Lizhensk wrote:
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Why a different thread for week 2?



New meeting, new people. New topic. Maybe
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--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
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