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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 00:31 #52615

joeshmo	Guard...why would you say that Dovs article was lost to me for? I read it and then read it again..If someone is going to take time to help me then I wil take time to chew the meat of what he sent...don't judge me my friend...I loved it as well.
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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 08:21 #52651

the.guard Current streak: 763 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	joeshmo wrote on 11 Feb 2010 00:31: Guard...why would you say that Dovs article was lost to me for? I read it and then read it again..If someone is going to take time to help me then I wil take time to chew the meat of what he sent...don't judge me my friend...I loved it as well. I'm glad, because that was a real classic beauty from Dov!
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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 11:20 #52658

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Hey im new here, after i fall i get this disgusting feeling inside of me but than the next day or two days later that feeling goes away and brings me back to the falling again. Its a horrible vicious cycle and i dont know how to stop it. I badly need to, im newly married and this problem has been with me forever. But now its affecting my marriage little by little and i know it is, i need to and want to stop so badly but i just cant put the brakes on.

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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 15:04 #52678

joeshmo	My friends I would greatly appreciate you Davening on my behalf today, I need a Nes..a Job..Thanks
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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 16:17 #52689

the.guard Current streak: 763 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	joeshmo wrote on 11 Feb 2010 15:04: My friends I would greatly appreciate you Davening on my behalf today, I need a Nes..a Job..Thanks May Hashem help joeshmoe ben adam to find a job in the merit of his quest for purity - and in the merit of his Emunah in your help!
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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 16:51 #52691

joeshmo	Thanks Guard....Omein to that..
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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 17:23 #52698

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	guardureyes wrote on 11 Feb 2010 16:17: joeshmo wrote on 11 Feb 2010 15:04: My friends I would greatly appreciate you Davening on my behalf today, I need a Nes..a Job..Thanks May Hashem help joeshmoe ben adam to find a job in the merit of his quest for purity - and in the merit of his Emunah in your help! AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 17:35 #52707

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	I just davened for you a bit, I'll have you in mind later, too.
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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 17:41 #52714

joeshmo	I will let you know when a Miracle occurs due to you Tzadakim Davening for me...joeshmo..a nobody who wants to be somebody Toda.
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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 17:43 #52716

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	Wrong again my friend! Your a somebody who is a somebody!!!!
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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 22:20 #52790

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joeshmo wrote on 10 Feb 2010 16:42:

I don't no how to PM..and like I said right now i have alot of financial debt and the first thing to go is this computer...so I guess that will be a good "Filter"

I don't have time to think about my problems today...only how to get out of this mess...and you know what?? I know HaShem isn't going to help me do anything..he never has so why start now...thanks.

Dear Joshmo - First of all, you are not a shmoe. You are clearly a sweet yid. You see so much potential in yourself that your spiritual poverty tears your heart out. First you may need to face the facts of your situation. It sounds like you are doing that already. Getting on your feet finacially is so important.

However, I need to ask: Has your lust problem has hurt your finances at all?
Have you been spending money for schmutz, spending time for chasing and secrecy, and spending vital energy in the torture of having a double life?

To many of us who have been living this way for years, even decades, it seems that we have not - even though the cost of our dependence on this trash has been far-reaching and devastating. We often seem to be blind to it early on.

Hatzlocha rabba is your problems. Please avail yourself of chessed organizations if you feel you need to. Please.

PS. Did you go to the bathroom today? If so, then Hashem does love and help this "Jo", and always has. Period. Say Asher Yotzar with a little smile, OK?

"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

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Re: I need help 11 Feb 2010 23:28 #52809

joeshmo	Dov I have NEVER spent a dime on schmutz...Im just a c...list guy and thats it...lucky me Im laid off from my profession...and I never use the bathroom without saying the Asher Yotzer...I try..and all your words Dov isn't going on def ears..thanks.ok? I mean that..thank you all...
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Re: I need help 14 Feb 2010 16:16 #53091

joeshmo	5 days now I feel good.
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Re: I need help 14 Feb 2010 20:58 #53145

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	We love you, Joe. No questions asked...on second thought: We love you even *with* the questions...and even with the answers! Please keep posting.
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same." Last Edit: by .

Re: I need help 14 Feb 2010 21:18 #53151

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	Glad to hear that you're clean, and also glad to hear that you feel good about it - remember how good it feels, hold onto that feeling!
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