I do believe your local orthodox community/synagogue would be filled with people who understood you more. They would certainly ask you to come to their house and spend shabbat with them if you make yourself known.
About the job, your local rabbi or community could try finding something out for you, maybe as a teacher (if you can teach) of some subject you like or working at the synagogue/charity/organizing events.
Try taking a vocational test and see what your aptitudes are, then see how you could take your skills to help the Jews around you. It will give you a lot of meaning and happiness.
