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Re: Tryin' 16 Mar 2017 12:25 #308386

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Shkoyach on the big steps.
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
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Re: Tryin' 16 Mar 2017 12:50 #308391

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Singularity wrote on 16 Mar 2017 07:36:
Though you must know it helps us newbies tremendously to know veterans still lust. Or at least it gives me an air of calm. Haha. So thank you.

But hatzlocha nevertheless!

What about it do you find helpful?

Re: Tryin' 16 Mar 2017 13:11 #308392

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LifneiHashem wrote on 16 Mar 2017 12:50:

Singularity wrote on 16 Mar 2017 07:36:
Though you must know it helps us newbies tremendously to know veterans still lust. Or at least it gives me an air of calm. Haha. So thank you.

But hatzlocha nevertheless!

What about it do you find helpful?

that you don't just achieve this immortality. That you're a normal guy with all these struggles but you just know how to navigate them better.
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Re: Tryin' 16 Mar 2017 13:59 #308393

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Singularity wrote on 16 Mar 2017 12:25:
Shkoyach on the big steps.

That's a copyright infringement.
If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can. 

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Re: Tryin' 16 Mar 2017 14:37 #308400

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Was going to post something really stupid, and deleted it before I hit submit.

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Re: Tryin' 16 Mar 2017 14:42 #308402

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eslaasos wrote on 16 Mar 2017 14:37:
Was going to post something really stupid, and deleted it before I hit submit.

Thinkin' of you.

Generally, stupid and I go together.
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Re: Tryin' 16 Mar 2017 14:44 #308404

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cordnoy wrote on 16 Mar 2017 14:42:

eslaasos wrote on 16 Mar 2017 14:37:
Was going to post something really stupid, and deleted it before I hit submit.

Thinkin' of you.

Generally, stupid and I go together.

But not today.
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Re: Tryin' 16 Mar 2017 21:31 #308435

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Guess you haven't emailed him yet  
very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: Tryin' 17 Mar 2017 02:23 #308461

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 16 Mar 2017 21:31:
Guess you haven't emailed him yet  

Not sure about this one.
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Re: Tryin' 17 Mar 2017 10:24 #308473

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very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: Tryin' 20 Mar 2017 15:44 #308655

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My respect for gedolim went up today (especially when we don't think the same).

MyI respect for friends went up todayI (even when we don't necessarily think the same).
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Re: Tryin' 20 Mar 2017 18:30 #308662

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mind elaborating 
very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: Tryin' 20 Mar 2017 21:03 #308669

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 20 Mar 2017 18:30:
mind elaborating 

Yes.

DifficultI to do on a public forum, although I do a lot of that. I also write it in emails and on calls.

Regardin' friends, I spoke to a fellow today who sees things from a different perspective than I. He sees the Hand of God in many occurrences of life. I don't. But his perspective helped me today, for I was willin' to simply listen. 
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Re: Tryin' 21 Mar 2017 03:35 #308699

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One valuable lesson learned today:

ManyI times, we find ourselves sayin', "why should I talk to so-and-so (rebbe, mentor, wife, group member, therapist, sponsor, friend, buddy, teacher)? What are they gonna say anyway? It's not rocket science, you know!" And therefore, we shy away.

Now, there is always the concept of sharin' which helps in a big way, but today I saw that we/i do not know everythin'. There is a lot to be learned and gained from hearin' from someone with a different perspective and different outlook.
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Re: Tryin' 21 Mar 2017 15:34 #308725

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Random thoughts:

Speakin' of fightin' and battleground, here are some:
  • Manhattan streets
  • Lakewood co-op parking lot
  • Beach
  • meah shearim shuk
  • Barbados
  •  Rush street
  •  Bucharest
  • Anywhere else?

Random question: what would have been so bad if God created everyone handsome, gorgeous and attractive?

End rant
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