sounds like you are "linking" your wife's disapproval with your brother-in-law's disapproval. Wealthy people in a family are incredibly draining if they are rude/aloof/disdainful.. One trick is to imagine what you would think of them if they didn't have money - you probably wouldn't pay much attention to them. Then think of very wealthy people you might know who are very friendly to you and treat you nicely.. You're not even aware that they are wealthy, and just like them for themselves. Even wealthy people can be made to feel inferior to even wealthier people.. It is a treadmill from which there is no escape. Only real wealth is good health, and no debt! Best thing would be to address what you can control - your obesity.. maybe join Weight Watchers, or read up online about it.. True - you will never be rail-thin...but maybe losing 10 lbs would make you feel better even if you had 100 more to go..
123pooped wrote:
So the rich sister with her husband is here in town for a week.The sister that my wife looks up to so much.the brother in law who hardly says a word to me.if you dont have momey you are nobody.Its true hes bascially ocd and it is hell to love with him. but they have a beautiful hous in yerushalim and a apt inhar nof and he supports all his kids in kolled.My kids love me and they would not want to be his child.My wife im not so sure particularly that hes in shape and i am obese.so its difficult . can hardly get a good word out of my wife .
she apologized she admitted she was wrong .Its nice it really doesnt change much but maybe it gives me some more confidence that the program is helping me aprreciate me.I have a lot of work to do but i thank you all for your support.
