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Re: For how long by now? 31 Aug 2012 13:18 #144363

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day 50.

Guys, after how many days would you consider to have an aliya on toychocho of parashas ki savo??

Re: For how long by now? 31 Aug 2012 14:07 #144366

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Gevaldigggggg!!

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: For how long by now? 03 Sep 2012 21:46 #144506

its 18 days and so far an incredible record and achievement
the last few days ive been white knuckling because the 12 step program is based on a personal rltshp with hashem and over the last few days ive been dealing with sfeikus in emunah....btw its my 20th birthday to day so mazel tov and since i have special power on a bithday to give broichos i wish a sober meaningful year for all gye!!!

i heard today that it says in seforim thar the curses in the sedrah really are incredibly high brochos but if we behave then they come as they are above and if we dont they come done practically as curses but even when they come down negatively betzem there still brochos...

Re: For how long by now? 03 Sep 2012 22:07 #144508

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RT, you are a fantastic yid!
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Re: For how long by now? 03 Sep 2012 22:09 #144509

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Happy Birthday and Mazel Tov on "Chai"!!!


KUTGW & KOMT!!!


Gevura!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: For how long by now? 04 Sep 2012 11:31 #144538

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54 days so far.
@TMC: thanks for the berocho and mazal tov. and mazal tov for your birthday
@Dov: thanks for reminding me :D
@Gevura: hey gevura, how are YOU ??

p.s. its interesting, that right now i feel very happy and calm etc. and i dont understand what would i need lust/sex(?) for (with "need" i mean "NEAD!!!!!", avaday its quite enjoyable).
BUT SOME TIMES, i feel (not in last 54 days..) that if i won't get some of IT i won't feel happy.
strange, no?

Re: For how long by now? 05 Sep 2012 01:15 #144586

Happy B-day TMC!!

your hard work is an inspiration to all, 18 days what an accomplishment!

5 days for me

Re: For how long by now? 05 Sep 2012 16:10 #144613

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55 days.

Re: For how long by now? 07 Sep 2012 00:02 #144736

21 days bh

Re: For how long by now? 07 Sep 2012 09:22 #144741

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57 days, on shabbes be'ezras haAwinu shebashamayim 58 days!

Re: For how long by now? 07 Sep 2012 16:15 #144762

22 bh

Re: For how long by now? 07 Sep 2012 18:22 #144766

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Can we add up all these days just for fun? Hey - Hashem has got to see them all together, anway, no? It;s a zechus to Klal Yisroel this clean time we are being given by Him, here.

Have a geshmakeh (sober) Shabbos alleh sweet chevra!!
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Re: For how long by now? 08 Sep 2012 19:43 #144774

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Rebbe, I would (humbly) ask YOU to post the exact number of your days.

I have a big goal now. To have more clean days than posts... chatzlocha to me..

btw, takke 58.

and. a gitte voch YIDDEN!

Re: For how long by now? 08 Sep 2012 20:43 #144776

well i fell,
but the cups half full so ill get up!
i think with the 12 step programme i fall only when i have sfeikus in emuna which happened right b4 i fell.
anyway ill keep on trucking.i wont have int. access for two weeks from wednsday bc im going to new york so ill update after yom kippur
Happy high holidays!

Re: For how long by now? 09 Sep 2012 01:38 #144781

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RT wrote on 08 Sep 2012 19:43:

Rebbe, I would (humbly) ask YOU to post the exact number of your days.

I have a big goal now. To have more clean days than posts... chatzlocha to me..

btw, takke 58.

and. a gitte voch YIDDEN!



For one thing, you need to stop posting so much. As long as your posting average is more than 1 per day you'll never catch up!!


Gevura the math guy
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends
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