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glasses outside 09 Jan 2012 09:56 #130348

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people that take off  their glasses outside and are asked why are they doing it, what do you say?
do you lie?
do you say the truth?
going into vulnerable places without glasses is helping a lot my 'shemirat einaim' but i am not sure what to say.
any ideas?

LT
כֻּלָּנוּ גֻּיַּסְנוּ לְכָל הַחַיִּים,
מִשּׁוּרָה מְשַׁחְרֵר רַק הַמָּוֶת.
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Re: glasses outside 09 Jan 2012 10:35 #130350

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I tell the truth. Any religious man will gain from taking off his glasses in some places even if he is normal.
The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars.
If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look.
I can guard my eyes.
I want to guard my eyes.
I do guard my eyes.
Why do I say these four lines?
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Re: glasses outside 09 Jan 2012 14:53 #130364

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I've never had anyone have even wonder why I was taking my glasses off.  I usually do when its so obvious that theres no hava emina otherwise.  let me ask you: Has someone asked you or is your yetzer hara making you feel self concious that youre doing such an act of tzedukus?
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Re: glasses outside 09 Jan 2012 18:28 #130382

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strugglingandstrivngBT wrote on 09 Jan 2012 14:53:

I've never had anyone have even wonder why I was taking my glasses off.  I usually do when its so obvious that theres no hava emina otherwise.  let me ask you: Has someone asked you or is your yetzer hara making you feel self concious that youre doing such an act of tzedukus?

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you are right! no one asked me, i was just thinking to myself that if i would see someone taking off his glasses when he gets close to some place when it is clear it is hard for him to see, it would look very wierd 

LT
p.s whoever wants to join i am doing 'lechaim' in honor of GYE for helping me get to 45 days. (even though this isn't  the longest time this is the first time that i have a real plan)
כֻּלָּנוּ גֻּיַּסְנוּ לְכָל הַחַיִּים,
מִשּׁוּרָה מְשַׁחְרֵר רַק הַמָּוֶת.
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Re: glasses outside 10 Jan 2012 22:15 #130511

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L'chaim ! (if not Woodford then at least a good sour mash !)
Hatzlacha in all things GOOD.
chaimyakov
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