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:) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 08 Nov 2011 14:39 #124800

Jackabbey Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 835 Karma: 0	smiling for 95 days b"h
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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 08 Nov 2011 16:16 #124819

heuni memass	keep em coming!
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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 08 Nov 2011 16:18 #124820

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	shetelech mishmeichel el shmeichel
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 08 Nov 2011 16:20 #124823

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some things that helped me to achieve the 90 days goal:
1) lots of mood elevating reading, like twersky stuff, and similars
2) lots of hashkofo mussar, like chovos halvoves
3) serious strict shmiraas einayim, no chance taken
4) internet filter
5) constant forum posting
6) giving chizuk to others non stop
7) mind concept changing, women are not objects, they are real people like me
8) accepting that its a sickness, not just an ordinary big sin
9) constantly asking hashem for help
10) accepting the fact that the challange is by far greater then i can humanly withstand
11) working every day ONLY FOR THAT SINGLE DAY (OR NIGHT)
12) constantly drifting my mind away from triggers

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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 08 Nov 2011 16:31 #124826

heuni memass	shmeichel's 12 steps. Well put. keep it up. In my own experience it was easier to reach 90 then day number 300. Because I was less focused and things started sliding in. Stay strong!
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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 08 Nov 2011 22:33 #124901

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Shmeichel wrote on 08 Nov 2011 16:20:

I did three through twelve and found great solace in them. Maybe I should have tried your numbers 1 and 2 to save myself from horrible mood swings I was having.
Although I did do some reading....

Baby steps.
If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas!

Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.

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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 09 Nov 2011 11:07 #124933

mggsbms OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 681 Karma: 53	Well said Shmeichel !
	Aka - Mischadeish075 Email mischadeish075@gmail.com Last Edit: 09 Nov 2011 11:10 by .

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 10 Nov 2011 15:49 #125044

Jackabbey Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 835 Karma: 0	day 97 clean i enjoy keeping my house neat and tidy then my boss enjoys coming in and my nice freinds feel at home
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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 10 Nov 2011 19:11 #125094

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	keep on shmeicheling!
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 10 Nov 2011 20:41 #125108

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	Poor, poor soton, what is he gonna do without you and me in his minions?
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 10 Nov 2011 21:17 #125111

Yosef Hatzadik OFFLINE Platinum Boarder A GYE'er since 2010 Posts: 2986 Karma: 10	obormottel wrote on 10 Nov 2011 20:41: Poor, poor soton, what is he gonna do without you and me in his minions? No worries. Good ol' Soton-boy aint leavin' you 'till the day you die!!
	*Yosef Hatzadik's Ha'oros* *Tov veyoshor Hashem al kein yoreh chata'im baderech!* Last Edit: by .

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 10 Nov 2011 23:04 #125142

Jackabbey Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 835 Karma: 0	please, we must not provoke him directly
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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 11 Nov 2011 00:54 #125168

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yeah, really.
In one of the chizuk emails there was an article from Bina about how Soton invented internet with the help of Bil'am uk'doime. Not a terribly profound idea, nor an extremely well-written article, but I found myself choking up at the end, so full of pity for myself for falling for his devious plan. It worked on me, to be sure!
So while his grip on me is well-established and even documented on this forum, I think it's fair to say that I submitted my resignation as the "jerk-squad" sergeant.

Baby steps.
If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas!

Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.

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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 11 Nov 2011 01:07 #125174

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And I always thought it was Al Gore.........

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 11 Nov 2011 02:13 #125183

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	al gore is a colonel. oh, you mean invented internet......
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .