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stopping forever 25 Oct 2011 16:55 #122605

  • yoni
Hey all,
I only first started coming to this site this past Sunday (see my intro thread: www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=4621.0), and at first I was really skeptical about whether or not this would work, whether I belonged here, etc etc.  At first I was thinking of just cutting down on my bad habits to once, twice a week, and just maintaing that status quo for a while. But I'm starting to realize that I can just stop forever.  I know this is only day 2 for me, but I've got this feeling that I can really change my life this time.  I don't know, is that crazy?  Is it even possible?  I really want to believe so…but at the same time I'm a little scared.  It's so easy now, easier than ever before, but I know it's not always going to be that way. Idk, what do you guys think?

Best,
Yoni
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Re: stopping forever 25 Oct 2011 17:07 #122606

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when i first came i thought i'll last forever, and i had my longest clean streak 56 days! but... i fell, and again and again- i'm not saying it's impossible, but THERE IS NO LONG RUN ya gotta take it one day at a time

and it is possible, take a look at this thread www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=3453.0
hatzlacha 4 us all!!!!!!!!!!
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: stopping forever 25 Oct 2011 19:32 #122626

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Yes, don't think of forever. Work on today. Tomorrow, work on today.  The next day, work on today.... after a while you'll see those days all added up to a lifetime.

Some times will be easier, some more difficult.  Keep working today.  Don't worry about the past, and don't worry about the future.

Stay with us chabibi.
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