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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 01 Jul 2011 03:45 #110083

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tshuvah5771 wrote on 01 Jul 2011 03:43:

i have such a urge now to watch, my wife is not home, and iam just a minute away. can anyone help me with a eitzah to hold back

The best quick advice I can give is to quickly switch into giving mode, don't even think twice, and be of service to others. Ask someone what you can do to help, call up your parents and see how life is going for them -- anything of service to others!

Tell me how it goes

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 01 Jul 2011 09:56 #110094

tshuvah5771 Current streak: 11 days OFFLINE User	b"h so far i passed, it was really tough
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 01 Jul 2011 15:22 #110104

emunah19 OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 100 Karma: 1	Hello How long does it take to get answered here
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 01 Jul 2011 15:31 #110106

kiviyvy Current streak: 97 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Yashuv VYashuv! Posts: 208 Karma: 2	emunah17 wrote on 01 Jul 2011 15:22: Hello How long does it take to get answered here Depends on the question
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 01 Jul 2011 15:34 #110107

kiviyvy Current streak: 97 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Yashuv VYashuv! Posts: 208 Karma: 2	tshuvah5771 wrote on 01 Jul 2011 09:56: b"h so far i passed, it was really tough Have you considered letting Hashem help you with this instead of fighting this on your own? Perhaps you'd be interested in this - www.guardyoureyes.org/?page_id=678
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Jul 2011 19:45 #110258

Lo Sasuru	Hello its been a long time since I last posted, but I have been using the 90 day chart. I need some major help right now. I'm not sure if I can get through this day. I don't know why or what to do but please give me advice/chizuk!!! Thanks in advance!!!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Jul 2011 19:55 #110259

kiviyvy Current streak: 97 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Yashuv VYashuv! Posts: 208 Karma: 2	I'd love to help. What's going on?
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Jul 2011 20:03 #110263

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	What kind of help would you like, specifically, chaver?
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same." Last Edit: by .

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Jul 2011 20:22 #110269

Lo Sasuru	idk... any help. its a very hard day for me for no specific reason. I just feel like I'm want to jump off a cliff (figuratively speaking) and indulge all my taavos tonight.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Jul 2011 20:32 #110271

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Well, for one thing, if your priority is to get through this night without touching your penis, with Hashem's loving help, that'd be a good start.

For another thing, how about getting specific about what you would like to do. If you are open and honest about that rather than hide it (for whatever excuse - 'frum', or otherwise), the burden is lighter. Actually, getting open with others about exactly what you are feeling like and (if you are lusting already - exactly what you are wishing to do) is the '1st step', in a way.

Use us.

Use Hashem.

That is what He wants from us. To use Him.

Go ahead, chabibi!

"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Jul 2011 20:33 #110272

kiviyvy Current streak: 97 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Yashuv VYashuv! Posts: 208 Karma: 2	Would you be up to visiting a hospital? Just walk around, shmooz with the families visiting their loved ones in the ICU, speak to some of the elderly, see the new babies in the maternity ward. It will do loads to shift your mood and perspective. Also - you might consider joining the 12 step phone conferences. You'll get real tools that really work at busting the lust.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 05 Jul 2011 01:34 #110301

Lo Sasuru	I just wanted to let you know. I fell. I know its not the end of the world or anything near that, and with help form the "sorry you fell" email I was able to pick up and start again!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Jul 2011 20:51 #110609

Blind Beggar OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Not a sexaholic, just trying to be good. Posts: 780 Karma: 12	We are all in grave danger of falling this Shabbos, chas vesholom, and we can all be big winners this Shabbos. Click on this link to find out why.
	The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars. If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look. I can guard my eyes. I want to guard my eyes. I do guard my eyes. Why do I say these four lines? Last Edit: by .

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 08 Jul 2011 05:41 #110645

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	I won't look. Just wake me up when it's over, BB. I'll be sleeping in Hashem's 'arms'... Zzzzzzzzzzzz.................................
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same." Last Edit: by .

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 08 Jul 2011 15:51 #110696

Sturggle Current streak: 178 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1706 Karma: 1	I'm about to slip, fall, tumble. I am reaching out for help, a hand.
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