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TOPIC: don't want it don't need it ..... 4767 Views

Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 24 Oct 2011 21:47 #122435

mggsbms OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 678 Karma: 53	thanks to you all for all the chizuk b"h i didn't fall again, and lets hope i will be able to cary on for long haul
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 24 Oct 2011 23:42 #122442

Yossi.L. Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 339 Karma: 0	Don't just hope.....let the gevaldig feat of not falling be a chizuk....
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 25 Oct 2011 02:48 #122478

mggsbms OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 678 Karma: 53	i write "hope" because i am really powerless so the most i could do is put up fences and hpe for the best.
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 25 Oct 2011 10:43 #122517

Jackabbey Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 835 Karma: 0	powerless? what a lie do you know how much power you consiste? isnt there many things in your life that are a struggle, and you perseviere because you see its correct? the y"h is more powerfull then us, true, but we must do whatever it takes, and hashem will then do the rest
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 25 Oct 2011 14:39 #122549

mggsbms OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 678 Karma: 53	"Shmeichel" i think thats exactly what i wrote, we are powerless because the y"h is stronger then us, but what we could do is put up fences. i have treid all that you are talking about it "doesnt" work.
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 25 Oct 2011 15:08 #122552

AlexEliezer OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1933 Karma: 55	MG, Glad to hear what you're doing is working. Just keep repeating it every day, every nisayon. Each of us must find his own unique pathway to recovery. Alex
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 25 Oct 2011 20:33 #122650

Jackabbey Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 835 Karma: 0	dear mgsbms, tell me if you have the power of keeping completely clean just for one day? realy "just for one day" tomorrow you can indulge, but for today its a no no, can you that?
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 25 Oct 2011 22:13 #122716

mggsbms OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 678 Karma: 53	i surly can and have been clean today and many days in the past. but there are days when i cant say that and that is my issue
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 25 Oct 2011 22:23 #122717

Jackabbey
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of course there are days and there are days
but if you take every day as "just for today only"
but really put that concept in your mind that the whole thing is just for today
then its a hell of a lot easier

besides, if you keep your eyes and mind from wandering, and prevent yourself from getting triggered
just dont be nosy, just think of what you just saw, dont look at her, try to keep CLEAN
then it can be much easier

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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 26 Oct 2011 20:34 #122905

mggsbms OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 678 Karma: 53	I started posting at the yidish forum and i am enjoying it alot, if there are any yidish speakers only hanging out here they should have a look at the going ons at the yidish sight, its getting quite lively. just saying....
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 26 Oct 2011 20:39 #122906

bardichev	yiddish forum?? do they have a cholint? a mincha??
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 26 Oct 2011 20:59 #122911

mggsbms OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 678 Karma: 53	cholent i dont know but vi hev a good rebbbe over deer
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 28 Oct 2011 16:18 #123225

mggsbms OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 678 Karma: 53	i have this feeling that if i won't take a second look i will aggravate myself to the point of falling, is there any truth to this or its part of the addiction ?
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Re: don't want it don't need it ..... 28 Oct 2011 16:43 #123236

Yosef Hatzadik OFFLINE Platinum Boarder A GYE'er since 2010 Posts: 2986 Karma: 10	The only way we knew to be free of it was to do it.
	*Yosef Hatzadik's Ha'oros* *Tov veyoshor Hashem al kein yoreh chata'im baderech!* Last Edit: by .