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TOPIC: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 1970 Views

Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 19 Jul 2011 13:13 #111605

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Dear fellow holy yidden, the 3 weeks are here, we have had many tzores recently, we have lost 3 gedolim, and a holy tenokis shel bais rabban and many others. The 3 weeks are a morning for the tzores of kal yisroel, let us take on ourselves not to lustfully gaze at women and in that zcus we will bring the geulah closer.

Whoever wants to join note the following:
- This is a kabbalah bli nedder
-if you fall you are not "out" just you should post here that you fell and keep on going.
-Keep in mind for every one time you don't look your bringing the geulah closer, if you look then DON"T get depressed but rather post that you looked get chizzick and keep on going.
- "Not lustfully gazing at women" doesn't mean you cant see a women but rather not to look at her with lustful eyes and thoughts, if you see a women by mistake if you don't "double look " that's not called lustful gazing .

So who is going to join??

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Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 19 Jul 2011 13:39 #111610

Third holy bear OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 12 Karma: 0	sounds good. I am in for today. cannot think of three weeks
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Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 19 Jul 2011 15:03 #111614

Blind Beggar OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Not a sexaholic, just trying to be good. Posts: 780 Karma: 12	Count me in. I will try not to stare at, lust after, objectify or deify any woman or girl and not to do Google searches for bad things for 3 weeks.
	The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars. If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look. I can guard my eyes. I want to guard my eyes. I do guard my eyes. Why do I say these four lines? Last Edit: by .

Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 19 Jul 2011 16:10 #111624

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	count me in too i can always use chizuk in shmiras einayim thank you Helpfyi, another great thread to your credit
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 19 Jul 2011 16:37 #111626

helpfyi OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 333 Karma: 0	great guys happy to see the good response, keep me posted how its going. Even if you commit for one day thats one day closer to the geulah! FYI R Guard posted it in today's chizzuck email!
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Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 19 Jul 2011 19:12 #111645

shteighecher Current streak: 24 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder KOT. ODAAT. Keep on Trucking. One Day At A Time. Posts: 216 Karma: 0	i join for the 3 weeks AND BEYOND. Forever. with hoshems help.
	Yes We Can!!!, Yes We Can!!!, Yes We Can!!!, With Hoshems Help Last Edit: by .

Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 19 Jul 2011 19:28 #111648

helpfyi OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 333 Karma: 0	shteighecher wrote on 19 Jul 2011 19:12: i join for the 3 weeks AND BEYOND. Forever. with hoshems help. WOW that's awesome, i agree we should all do it forever but sometimes its easier to take it in small intervals.
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Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 19 Jul 2011 20:33 #111654

Ineedhelp!! OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1058 Karma: 2	Bli Neder I will make an even greater effort to guard what my eyes see and what my mind thinks for the next day. This is a time for Teshuvah and we all have to put in what we can.
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Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 19 Jul 2011 20:41 #111655

Yosef Hatzadik OFFLINE Platinum Boarder A GYE'er since 2010 Posts: 2986 Karma: 10	!!חבר אני לכל אשר יראיך
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Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 20 Jul 2011 02:25 #111685

struggler1 Current streak: 77 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 106 Karma: 0	Sounds like a great project. I want to participate.
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Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 20 Jul 2011 02:29 #111686

helpfyi OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 333 Karma: 0	good luck to all who joined, i had a great day, i was in the supermarket and its a place where i used to have a hard time with and i went totally clean i'm happy and hope it continues, i didn;t even feel like i was missing anything!
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Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 20 Jul 2011 17:24 #111743

Blind Beggar OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Not a sexaholic, just trying to be good. Posts: 780 Karma: 12	I have not been well behaved on the Internet the last 2 days but I am committed to continue with the rest of this group. Is it only me or have all the women and girls become so much more beautiful these last few weeks? And I don't mean just more revealing.
	The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars. If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look. I can guard my eyes. I want to guard my eyes. I do guard my eyes. Why do I say these four lines? Last Edit: by .

Re: Join me in guarding our eyes during the 3 weeks!!! 20 Jul 2011 18:26 #111753

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Blind Beggar wrote on 20 Jul 2011 17:24:

I have not been well behaved on the Internet the last 2 days but I am committed to continue with the rest of this group.
Is it only me or have all the women and girls become so much more beautiful these last few weeks? And I don't mean just more revealing.

great to have you on board! and its defiantly you, if you open your eyes to them your lust will make them better then ever, to me they keep on getting more ugly!