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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 19 Oct 2020 12:43 #356426

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Because it's the wrong medicine. If you need medicine for ADHD, depression, or something else, you may be wrongly using lust as your medicine. Well guess what, you're taking the wrong meds. Go visit your health professional to take the right meds instead. If you prefer not to take meds, realize that you may be using lust as your meds...

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 19 Oct 2020 13:12 #356427

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Shteeble wrote on 19 Oct 2020 12:43:
Because it's the wrong medicine. If you need medicine for ADHD, depression, or something else, you may be wrongly using lust as your medicine. Well guess what, you're taking the wrong meds. Go visit your health professional to take the right meds instead. If you prefer not to take meds, realize that you may be using lust as your meds...

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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 19 Oct 2020 20:25 #356443

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Markz wrote on 19 Oct 2020 13:12:

Shteeble wrote on 19 Oct 2020 12:43:
Because it's the wrong medicine. If you need medicine for ADHD, depression, or something else, you may be wrongly using lust as your medicine. Well guess what, you're taking the wrong meds. Go visit your health professional to take the right meds instead. If you prefer not to take meds, realize that you may be using lust as your meds...

ברוך שהחיינו וקיימנו והגיענו לזמן הזה
Our shteeble is finally out of lockdown!!

He must not live in Brooklyn or it would have to be 10 words or less.
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 20 Oct 2020 15:32 #356485

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I feel more depressed, guilty, and unhappy afterwards!

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 11 Nov 2020 17:59 #357296

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Does anyone have, or can make a PDF of all this?



I am sure many Chushiva friends here will appreciate it, and it will a big zechus. 
What does a GUN and LUST have in common? 
Remove the trigger, you remove their power. 

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 19 Feb 2021 13:14 #363763

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Working on an excel, if someone wants to help with a few pages..

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 23 Feb 2021 00:43 #364006

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yuyu wrote on 11 Nov 2020 17:59:
Does anyone have, or can make a PDF of all this?



I am sure many Chushiva friends here will appreciate it, and it will a big zechus. 

The forum has a feature that can generate a PDF of a thread. Just click the Adobe symbol on the bottom right corner on the desktop.

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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 26 Feb 2021 12:04 #364281

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bECUASE WE Love you and you can do it!!!

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 08 Mar 2021 21:11 #365013

Because you have loved ones who believe in you, even if they know nothing about what you're going through 

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 29 Dec 2021 01:23 #375351

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Because all the malochim and all the the tzadikim and your greatgrandparents
and most of all Hashem is rooting for you!
RIDE THE WAVES.
Keep Fighting because thats why you're alive! 
Never ever give up no matter how many times you fall.
If you are about to fall call someone for chizuk.
DON'T FALL,CALL.

Check out easypeasymethod.org

My thread
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 25 Jan 2022 18:38 #376465

each time you fall your wiring your brain to make this "ok" and categorize as an outlet..  
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
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Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 26 Jan 2022 00:56 #376495

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the disgusting feeling that you get when you come out of that high just isn't worth it
For an explanation on my choice of username and avatar see my first post

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 26 Jan 2022 01:04 #376497

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sleepy wrote on 26 Jan 2022 00:56:
the disgusting feeling that you get when you come out of that high just isn't worth it

Are you sure there are other reasons besides Hashem?
Last Edit: 26 Jan 2022 01:05 by Shmuel.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 01 Aug 2022 17:42 #384203

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Because that feeling of lust is really a spark of love that Hashem sent down on this world to do good things and just like you would never take a sefer torah into the bathroom with you, This is essentially the same only much worse if you are using it for immorality you are taking a very holy spark into terrible places and you are hurting the Shchina!

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 03 Aug 2022 03:02 #384295

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Just push it off for 5 minutes.
and you will see you'll be a Happier Person!
90,000 reason > You'll be a Happy Person
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