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feeling low 05 Jul 2011 08:57 #110312

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Re: feeling low 05 Jul 2011 09:57 #110315

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You should feel really bad and give at least $2000 to GYE as a kaporah and then wait and see what the good folk of GYE post after me!

The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars.
If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look.
I can guard my eyes.
I want to guard my eyes.
I do guard my eyes.
Why do I say these four lines?
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Re: feeling low 05 Jul 2011 10:00 #110316

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Eat Hot Dogs LeKuved Yontiff 4th of July (I'll take mine w/mustard and SAuerkraut thank you very much), Drink Woodford, Keep on Trucking!

Sincerely regret being oveir on al tarbeh sichah im haisha and thereby putting your recovery in danger, but at the same time be glad that you weren't oveir issurei negiah (avazreihu d'gilui arayos) and thank Hashem that you cut your losses by not facebooking these girls.

And then GO VEITER!!!

V'zehu Zeh!

KOT!

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My real name really is Eli
Like the original Bendy, Ein hadavar talui ela bee




 
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Re: feeling low 05 Jul 2011 11:08 #110317

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ICanRepair wrote on 05 Jul 2011 08:57:

What am i supposed to do!


Pretty much - what are you supposed to do.

Life (for me) is all about making choices, and living with them.  Everyone finds something different "acceptable".  For the most part, I know what is "right" and what is not.  And some of the things that I would have felt genuinely "OK" about some years ago might feel "wrong" now.

That, I believe, is internal growth (although I could be wrong).

Perhaps this is just a painful reminder that you are growing up, and it's time to put the toys of childhood away.  But you're asking the right question, I think.  And by answering it, you will know what to do in the future.

Good luck
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Re: feeling low 05 Jul 2011 14:35 #110336

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i don't know but to me your awesome! bec if i would have been there i would have been a dead man. the very fact that you feel bad is proof that you have a spacial neshima and you feel bad that you weren't in a place that you should be. The fact that you didn't take it further is like passing a great test like that of yosef hatzaddik, you should give yourself a pat on the back and say to yourself " look at those low people i saw at that party, they are giving up their life in the world to come and DONT EVEN FEEL BAD!! i want to choose a different path". This encounter should be for you a chizzuk of WHAT NOT TO BE! Go forward and get even more better and maybe being there will actually help you go further in kedusha!!
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Re: feeling low 05 Jul 2011 16:49 #110359

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Tuck your shirt in, say clearly in English that you are sorry, eat a burger, and move on for G-d's sake, brother.
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."
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