DesertLion wrote on 18 Mar 2011 22:22:
let go and let God, and that everything has already been pre-determined before we were even born.
OK, let's see - let go and let god is a complicated issue, and lots of people understand it in lots of different ways.
As far as things being pre-determined before we're born, though, I don't think that's true. In other words, we do make free choices. Does god allow us to make those choices? Yes. Did he know before hand? This is a bit tricker, but yes again.
How do we pair god's foreknowledge and our free will? It's an age-old question, but here's an answer i heard, in a very abridged version. If you want more detail, PM me, please.
Imagine that I know what decision you will make tomorrow, because I went (with my time machine) into the future and saw you decide (and then came back to today). My knowledge doesn't limit your free will. So, God knows what we will do before we do it, because He's in the future, too - he's above time, not limited by it.