My veiw is based on a 'drech hameMutza' of the two options.  And even after finding this from R Ahron zt"l, although I have to reevaluate my veiwpoint, I think that my above post was his kavanah. 

http://www.guardureyes.com/GUE/FAQ/FAQ4.asp

GUYS CALM DOWN!!!!!!!!!!

BREATHE IN AND BREATHE OUT

MISHPACHA MGAGAGAGAGAGZINE

IS NOT OUR ENEMY

LET ME TELL YOU WHO THEY ARE

THEY ARE A "BUSINESS"

THEY ARE IN THE BUSINESS OF SELLING MAGAGAGAGAGAGZINES

AND ADVERTISING

THEIR TARGET CLIENT BASE IS TORAH JEWRY

YES THEY DO A GOOD JOB AND SERVICE

BUT ITS STILL A BUSINESS

HAVING SAID ALL THAT

WE NEED TO REMEMBER

NO MATTER HOW MUCH THEY SAY THEY ARE DAAS TORAH ITS STILL A BUSINEES DECISION BASED ON DOLLARS AND CENTS

SORRY BUT IT IS HOW THE WORLD WORKS


MAGAGAGAGGAZINE DOES NOT WANT TO LOSE READERS

THEY ALSO DON'T WANT TO LOOK SILLY

THEY FEEL THAT BY SPEAKING OF CUTE LITTLE ISSUES THAT WERE SOMEWHAT HUSH HUSH

THEY WILL ATTRACT READERS AND ADVERTISERS

SO THEY PUSH THE ENVELOPE A DROP

TALK ABOUT SHIDUCHIM

POST PARTUM

AT RISK

OVER EATERS ETC



BUT THEY ALSO WANT TO BE NEWS WORTHY

THEY DONT WANT TO LOOK SILLY AND OUT OF TOUCH


HERE IS THE THING

WE DON'T NEED TO GAUGE OUR LEGITIMACY

BY BEING PROFILED IN MAGAGAGGAGAGA

WE "ARE" THE MISHPACHA!!!

THEY CAN KEEP ON PROFILING THEIR

SYNDROME DE JOUR

PUT IN A PICTURE OF THEIR 3 FAVORITE TZADDIKKIM

AND SHIMON PERES WITH A KAPPEL  EATING MATZHA WHILE LIGHTING THE MENORAH ON PURIM

LISTEN JUST FOR THE RECORD

THEY BLEW IT WITH THE 3 BOYS IN JAPAN

AND SHALOM  RUBASHKIN

THEY DON'T WANT GUE  NUU NUU WE ARE IN GOOD COMPANY

reaction when reading this line

LOLLING and some more LOLLING

We where still talking about mishpacha?  I thought we ended that 3 pages ago! 

but 100% with Reb B

I saw the article in Mishpacha but I think this site needs even more publicity

DIDNT BOTHER!

Anyone wannna reply to this article: New York - Opinion: The Jewish Teenage Internet Addiction  in VosIzNeias.com with a link to GYE?

The article almost totally ignores the huge elephant in the room which is that one of the most destructive forces of the internet is pornography not just surfing.  That is not to say one couldn't be addicted to internet other than porn but lets get real about what the most dangerous parts are.

its a double edged sword

to speak or not to speak

either way is tuff

what misses the main point is

that its not the teenagers

its everyone

tatty mommy and bocher and bocherette all have the same addiction

yup the family plan

:'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

Reb bards, just read ur posts in this thread, u killed me with the "peres" description
Ya, VIN has piter oifan kup, they r part to blame for the addiction, being a kosher news site, they drag u down in the net, but hey they r in business just like the "mishpacha"

JIP

U made me laff on my own joke

"AND SHIMON PERES WITH A KAPPEL  EATING MATZHA WHILE LIGHTING THE MENORAH ON PURIM"