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New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 13:32 #45627

the.guard
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Hey, it's great that we finally learned how to "hide" and "show" different boards to different members on this forum. This is something I never knew how to do before, and it opens up so many new options.

I just created a board for "Spouses of Addicts". (Don't feel bad if you can't see it, after all, you get to be the "addict" himself!! ;D)

If you are the spouse of an addict, please send me an e-mail of PM and I will add you to the "Spouses of Addicts" group so you can post there and get chizuk (and share chizuk) with other spouses.

And by the way, if you are a spouse of an addict, feel free to vent on that forum too. Your husband can't see what you write anyway!! ;D ;D

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Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 15:05 #45672

sci1977 Current streak: 438 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 895 Karma: 0	I think this is a great idea for GUE!!! It shows we can help both sides of the addiction!!! Addict and spouse...
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Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 15:47 #45696

kollel guy Current streak: 15 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 478 Karma: 1	So do they get to see what we write?
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Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 16:19 #45715

Ineedhelp!! OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1058 Karma: 2	Are there any spouses that are even signed up on GYE?
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Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 17:09 #45726

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	Kollel Guy wrote on 14 Jan 2010 15:47: So do they get to see what we write? Yes, but we can't see what they write - hey, let's give them some space to vent.
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Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 17:41 #45734

sci1977 Current streak: 438 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 895 Karma: 0	Yiddle2 wrote on 14 Jan 2010 16:19: Are there any spouses that are even signed up on GYE? my wife is signed up I know that!!
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Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 18:30 #45762

me3 Current streak: 97 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1229 Karma: 9	Is this going to be a mixed forum?
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Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 19:27 #45771

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	Me3 wrote on 14 Jan 2010 18:30: Is this going to be a mixed forum? Stop making me grind my teeth together, me3. You just LOVE to do that :-X
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Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 19:30 #45772

me3 Current streak: 97 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1229 Karma: 9	yes
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Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 20:50 #45808

letakain OFFLINE Platinum Boarder KOTNMW Posts: 5036 Karma: 64	my husband goes on once in a while
	I am proud of myself today because of who I am becoming with progress, not perfection one day at a time I am a pickle, and I'll never be a cucumber again. and pickles are YUM! my thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/6-Women-on-the-way-to-90-Days/248941-Letakains-internet-addiction-journal Last Edit: by .

Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 21:33 #45818

kollel guy Current streak: 15 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 478 Karma: 1	I think my wife is the only one there...
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Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 14 Jan 2010 21:38 #45822

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	Rage ATM wrote on 14 Jan 2010 21:35: maybe i should ask mrs. rage to come and stir things up a bit there... Anything but that! :o :o :o
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: by .

Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 15 Jan 2010 07:28 #45921

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NEWS REPORT--JUST IN:

You'll notice that in the addict's forum we have all chosen usernames that reflect the way we view ourselves--that reflect what we are trying to become.

Names that ring to a tune of: Holy, Striving, Don't despair.

Recent reports show that the names of the spouse's forum have a different flavor to them, they reflect how our spouses view us:

"I HATE YOU," "RESENTFUL," "DEJECTED," "WHATWENTWRONG129."

It would be interesting to explore the significance of these name differences.

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Re: New exclusive forum for Spouses of Addicts 15 Jan 2010 11:14 #45952

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	Kollel Guy wrote on 14 Jan 2010 21:33: I think my wife is the only one there... There are other women signed up, but tell your wife to POST something, for goodness sake ... Someone has to start, or no one else will have who to respond to!
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