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TOPIC: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 30152 Views

Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 17:55 #45743

  • habib613
silentbattle wrote on 14 Jan 2010 17:43:

Habib...I'm sorry... (and you know it's true, because if not for the fact that I'm responding to you, I wouldn't be posting at all today - I'm still considering whether or not it's a good idea for me to stay)...
I know you've already gotten up, and are moving forward.

i'm sorry too...
but SB, please don't leave... it's not worth it.
maybe u'd be able to stay clean without gye, but there are so many people here who need your chizzuk. besides for that, we want a party soon when you hit 90
GYE is growing and changing, and so these are just growing pains... its gonna get better.
thanks for always being around to give chizzuk.
KOT!
habib
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 18:03 #45747

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We'll see.

There are a lot of people here who clearly feel that people like me are children, and not as good as them. They want to be separate. I don't know if i want or need to face that every day. I hope to have my party soon enough...but it'll be with people who want me.

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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 18:07 #45749

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HOLD ON A SECOND!!!!
You can't be serious!!!
Are you telling me you are insulted by the new forum?
It was made to protect the singles, not piss them off!!
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 18:12 #45751

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And cribs are made to protect babies.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 18:16 #45753

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Wow so far these separations have induced mass fallings and some pretty insulted members.

keep up the good work!

BTW SB if it was anything I said, it wasn't meant. I never say anything insulting seriously.

(Unless I'm insulting Rage)

see.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 18:23 #45757

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silentbattle wrote on 14 Jan 2010 18:03:

We'll see.

There are a lot of people here who clearly feel that people like me are children, and not as good as them. They want to be separate. I don't know if i want or need to face that every day. I hope to have my party soon enough...but it'll be with people who want me.


If you really feel this way, then there are others as well, and the whole things not worth it.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 19:04 #45768

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silentbattle wrote on 14 Jan 2010 17:43:

- I'm still considering whether or not it's a good idea for me to stay)...

please dont leave. u guys probably dont know that, but im depended on ur posts. the grls and me have different time zones. every chizuk post u write brings me a step closer to 90 days and to Hashem. ur posts are so valuable and unique, coz u all think differently. so basically, im gaining A LOT from ur posts SB. STAY!!!
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 19:35 #45773

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SB, I am sorry but you are SERIOUSLY taking this too hard and too far.
There are not even any freekin' POSTS yet on the married men's board, for goodness sake. It is EMPTY.
I believe we'll have maybe one or two threads added there a week.
It has nothing to do with "not wanting you there".
It is made for very specific kind of discussions that a married guy would simply not feel comfortable talking about in a forum that is mixed with many single guys, some of them young.
And anyway, I gave you full access to the married guy's forum because you seem to feel you would gain from that.
Get over it man.
Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 19:45 #45778

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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 19:49 #45781

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habib613 wrote on 14 Jan 2010 17:34:

we all fell, i think.
today's day two for me


we did 
I fell the most though  :-[

SB, your posts are always so thoughtful and inspiring..pls continue posting. See , we are. Even if we were put in the corner...Sometimes your dealt  a new set of cards and u jst gotta deal with it.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 19:54 #45782

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TrYiNg wrote on 14 Jan 2010 19:49:

habib613 wrote on 14 Jan 2010 17:34:

we all fell, i think.
today's day two for me


we did 
I fell the most though  :-[

SB, your posts are always so thoughtful and inspiring..pls continue posting. See , we are. Even if we were put in the corner...Sometimes your dealt  a new set of cards and u jst gotta deal with it.


Well sai Trying. There are always 2 options when a decision is made against your will and you really have no control over it. We can accept that it is Yad Hashem and Hashem would only do whats best for us and therefore accept this as a good thing moving forward. Or we can let the resentment of this decision build up in us, get angry at whoever comes in our way throughout the day, and put on our bitter glasses (casue thats really what youre looking at the world through).

The bottom line is either way, the decision is made. We can look at it positively or negatively. But we decide how to look at it. Which do you think is better for our addictions?

-Yiddle
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 21:22 #45817

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Hmmmm.

I feel like this an appropriate time to remind everyone that I like guns.

Big guns.

I got to shoot one with an 8 inch barrel the other day.

A handgun.

Talk about kickback.

And small guns.

Middle size guns.

Basically, any sort of Arab-repellent (when used in the correct quantity)

Just reminding.

That's all.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 22:10 #45826

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Is that the guy from "The big Levovitz"?
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 22:14 #45829

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Kanesher has gone strangely silent.

You don't think.............................?
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 22:30 #45835

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Nope me3. Just reloading.
Do me a favor, can you raise your blinds just a drop more?
I hate body shots, far too messy.
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