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TOPIC: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 30150 Views

Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 06:07 #45577

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Bruce, I'm sorry i didn't think before I posted. I really am. I never dreamed you could be offended, by either post.

can't you just forgive me so we can move on from here? PLEASE?
No one is so small that he can not give help, and no one is so big that he doesn't need it.

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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 06:12 #45578

why are  you still whining about it?

I moved on like yesterday.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 06:14 #45579

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haven't you ever signed up for something, realized you didn't want it, and then canceled? if the girl sees an announcement, and realizes she is addicted, she can sign up, take a look around, and then decide if she wants to stay or not.

You know that's not true.
I would've never started posting if I wouldn't see other women post. I wouldn't even realize that this is for women too. I thought that I'm the only frum girl with this problem. Naturally, seeing a men only forum would reinforce that belief.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 14:10 #45638

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I don't think these "scientific facts" should be quoted - even for a joke.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 14:10 #45639

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yes, my chimpanzee friends,  we are the advanced gender...and now you know why you had to get kicked out of the club....


wow, this rager can be a meany.

I read this to my wife and she wants to know why you run after them?
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 14:14 #45642

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TrYiNg wrote on 14 Jan 2010 06:14:


haven't you ever signed up for something, realized you didn't want it, and then canceled? if the girl sees an announcement, and realizes she is addicted, she can sign up, take a look around, and then decide if she wants to stay or not.

You know that's not true.
I would've never started posting if I wouldn't see other women post. I wouldn't even realize that this is for women too. I thought that I'm the only frum girl with this problem. Naturally, seeing a men only forum would reinforce that belief.


That was exactly my point and I am very afraid that is what is going to happen to the women;s forum in the future. With it moving forward, I wish all the females the best of luck!

-Yiddle
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 14:15 #45643

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1- sorry bruce. didn't think that was your type of thing to say, anyway...
2- yeah, i found gye before there was a women's side
3- trying, i really do believe that if they need it they will sign up. of course, there is more effort involved than normal, because they'd have to make a private gye email...still. if they need it, they will look until they find it. c'mon desperate ppl do desperate things.
4- you guys have GOT to loosen up... get juiced...
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 15:45 #45695

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Dov's words are so true...
But so g-----m hard to accept!!
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 16:15 #45710

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guardureyes wrote on 14 Jan 2010 14:10:


yes, my chimpanzee friends,  we are the advanced gender...and now you know why you had to get kicked out of the club....


wow, this rager can be a meany.

I read this to my wife and she wants to know why you run after them?


For the record, this study was a waste of money.
There are no chidushim here at all.
We women could have told you years ago that men have not only  a much lower Y chromosome to begin with, but lower everything.
Finally, they are deciding to try catch up to us X chromosomes.
It'll never happen but you deserve a "good boy" sticker for effort! :D :D :D
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 17:31 #45729

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In all seriousness (This would be my first serious post of the day) the one place where men and women were not separated in this site, is the 90 day chart.

There are some very important names conspiciously absent.

Habib?
Trying?
Letakain?

Where the heck are you?

And rage why are'nt you there either?
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 17:34 #45732

  • habib613
we all fell, i think.
today's day two for me
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 17:39 #45733

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WE  EXPECT YOU ALL BACK UP THERE ASAP!

OR THERE'S GOING TO BE TROUBLE
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 17:43 #45735

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Habib...I'm sorry... (and you know it's true, because if not for the fact that I'm responding to you, I wouldn't be posting at all today - I'm still considering whether or not it's a good idea for me to stay)...

I know you've already gotten up, and are moving forward.

Oh, and  :-[sorry about the mix up with the shiur. I sent it again, through 7up...it's bigger, this time around :D In fact, I can even post the link here.

https://www.yousendit.com/transfer.php?action=download&ufid=TzY1WWV0dENRWUxIRGc9PQ
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 17:44 #45736

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Kollel Guy wrote on 14 Jan 2010 15:45:

Dov's words are so true...
But so g-----m hard to accept!!

Don't worry. I never accepted them, either.
They were forced down my throat! That's why I honestly say that all my gratitude for finally getting into recovery goes to two "places': My addiction (for finally getting bad enough to make me have to choose between life and death), and l'havdil, Hashem (for helping me choose life). Sorry about the order, folks....

Someone please give me a pill for seriousness-reduction, ok? Got anything, Reb b?
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"The heart needs to be broken when will-power is not enough"
"Get off the 18-Wheeler and onto a tricycle!"
"The heck with me, what can I do for you?"
"I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons!"
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 14 Jan 2010 17:51 #45740

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day 4
scared of the chart.
I am proud of myself today because of who I am becoming with progress, not perfection
one day at a time
I am a pickle, and I'll never be a cucumber again. and pickles are YUM!

my thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/6-Women-on-the-way-to-90-Days/248941-Letakains-internet-addiction-journal
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