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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 06 Apr 2011 17:33 #103398

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I loved your post, EBD.

Really, you are right. In the future, I will NOT consider it an onis, if I simply did the wrong thing and gave in to my yetzer hara.
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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 06 Apr 2011 17:38 #103401

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Thanks Zemmy for your warm haskamah, and Yosef for taking my post the right way.

As much as we can, we're behind you all the way!

E
For Dov and the other two guys who care,
My real name really is
 Eli
Like the original Bendy, Ein hadavar talui ela bee




 
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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 06 Apr 2011 18:18 #103407

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ben durdayah wrote on 06 Apr 2011 17:38:

As much as we can, we're behind you all the way!

100%

keep on shteiging Yosef! you are doing good work
thanks for taking us along on the ride
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 07 Apr 2011 16:54 #103546

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Good news. I am getting stronger. I learned a full night seder. There were only THREE of us in the whole Beis Medrash, but I didn't let that deter me. I learned really well. I got to bed on time. Small victories should be celebrated too, so that one's mindset is in success mode, which will certainly lead to other successes.

Thanks for being there for me, guys. I will need you on this journey of creating new good habits and leaving in the mud the bad habits of the past.

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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 07 Apr 2011 18:10 #103554

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good to hear you are doing good!
as they say: progress, not perfection
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 08 Apr 2011 04:27 #103614

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Good job Yosef. Keep up the good work!
and yes the small victories are really HUGE upstairs!
ישראל אע"פ שחטא ישראל הוא
If you're connected above, you won't fall down below - Reb Shlomo
ולבי חלל בקרבי
לולא האמנתי לראות בטוב ה' בארץ חיים
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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 08 Apr 2011 15:32 #103653

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Hopefully, with all the support here, and by focusing on my goals, and working each day to get there, I WILL actually get there.

Have a great Shabbos, and let's keep moving forward toward our goals!

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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 08 Apr 2011 16:20 #103660

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The Y"H doesn't give up when it comes to all of his sinister tricks.  This is great news that you did not give in to the temptation so late at night!!!  Have a great Shabbos!!!
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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 10 Apr 2011 20:24 #103784

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 On Shabbos, I learned at two tough times: Friday night and after Shacharis, and went to bed on time.

Motzei Shabbos, I went to bed not too late...computer shut itself off as I had hoped it would, and I got restful sleep. Very busy day today, helping out my wife and family the WHOLE day...definitely a success!

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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 11 Apr 2011 05:59 #103840

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Im joining your Lchayim!
Youre doing great!
Success breeds success!

ישראל אע"פ שחטא ישראל הוא
If you're connected above, you won't fall down below - Reb Shlomo
ולבי חלל בקרבי
לולא האמנתי לראות בטוב ה' בארץ חיים
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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 11 Apr 2011 19:15 #103894

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O.k. I completed day 7! One whole successful week.

I am exhausted but exhilarated.

I'm having Jim Beam black on the rocks. L'chayim!

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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 11 Apr 2011 19:17 #103895

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lechayim tovim uleshalom!

till 120!
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 11 Apr 2011 19:35 #103898

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Lechayim Toivim Eeylishoolem!

For Dov and the other two guys who care,
My real name really is
 Eli
Like the original Bendy, Ein hadavar talui ela bee




 
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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 12 Apr 2011 20:18 #103992

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Thanks guys. It's great not to have to drink alone!

Completing day 8. Preparing for Pesach is exhausting and takes the WHOLE day. So I am busy doing mitzvahs and no time for aveiras...which is a good thing...I guess.

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Re: weekly accountability and chizuk (the making of a Tzadik) 12 Apr 2011 20:43 #103996

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Yosef Tikun HaYesod wrote on 12 Apr 2011 20:18:

So I am busy doing mitzvahs and no time for aveiras...which is a good thing...I guess.

you bet your bottom dollar it is!
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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