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Re: Nezach - My determination to break free and be clean 28 Oct 2009 23:14 #26163

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Mazal Tov, Mazal Tov!

I will mention you in tomorrow's Chizuk e-mail! And put you on the Wall of Honor!

Keep growing me'chayil el choyil!
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Re: Nezach - My determination to break free and be clean 28 Oct 2009 23:27 #26165

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Mazel Tov Nezach!
and thank you for the inspiring words!

Baruch Hashem you have made it this far and May you forever eternally stay clean in many many more days to come
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Re: Nezach - My determination to break free and be clean 28 Oct 2009 23:39 #26168

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Netzach that is absolutely phenomenal!! You captured your feelings so poetically that it got me all choked up. A huge inspiration and motivation for me and the entire GYE forum!!
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Re: Nezach - My determination to break free and be clean 29 Oct 2009 17:59 #26283

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MAZEL TOV!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOOOORAH OFF THE LADDER

BRING OUT SOME WOOD FORD!!

LCHAIM!!!
http://www.guardureyes.com/GUE/Music/mus/Berditchev.mp3

THIS IS THE BEST !!!!

JACKS NIGGUN!!
http://www.guardureyes.com/GUE/Music/mus/JackSimcha.mp3
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Re: Nezach - My determination to break free and be clean 29 Oct 2009 20:21 #26311

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Mazel Tov Nezach!

Im embarrassed that I rarely visited your thread or corresponded, but your accomplishment is cause for simcha for not only all of us here on GYE, but for Klal Yisrael, even if they dont know it.

One less slave to the yh!

Mashiach is on his way!
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: Nezach - My determination to break free and be clean 30 Oct 2009 02:49 #26367

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Tzadik Yesod Olam Rabeinu Netzach Yisroel Lo Yshaker vlo ycchazev,

Warmest and heartfelt Mazal Tov wishes to u o hero of Israel.

May you keep climbing the ladder going up to Beis Kail!!

Love and prayers for your continued success

Noorah
[b]כי שבע יפול צדיק וקם[/b] 
A Tzadik is he who continues to  bounce back after he hits bottom, even a hundred times !!!!!Rav Don Segal Shlita
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Re: Nezach - My determination to break free and be clean 07 Dec 2009 15:33 #32865

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It has been a busy time lately, a lot has been happening. I am perhaps not in the best frame of mind to write about the last couple of months, but wanted to let you know a little about how life is since my decision to break free, the determination and strength of will (from Hashem) and since reaching the 90 days mark.

You have to make a determined decision, not matter how dark or strong the impulse, because otherwise you are an easy victim. This is being strong, by being true to yourself and those who support and care for you.
I used to think that such an obvious and easy decision can be made relatively quickly, but this is not so. It takes time to introspect and gain clarity to give strength and motive behind your decision to be shomer habris.
However, in the meantime, be it days or even weeks, be extra vigilant not to let go. Do not be uncertain, but have belief. Each day.

The above certainly helped me in reaching the milestone, as well as 'not counting' to 90 days but to 'just keep going' for a few days at a time, or whatever is suitable, and to keep your eye on the target. Where do you want to get to? What is it that you want to achieve?

Since '90 days' life has been good boruch Hashem, even though a lot of 'troubles' have come my way. Emunah is enhanced and I understand more about life and about myself now given my experiences.

Guard your eyes no matter how difficult the temptation. When you internalise this and apply it on a daily basis, that is when you are growing and nearing your target automatically. It becomes easier with practice!!

Today was the first day in several months that I had a 'moment' of temptation which was overcome, boruch Hashem.

Bracha, v'hatzlacha v'yirat Shamayim.
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Re: Nezach - My determination to break free and be clean 27 Dec 2009 08:43 #38268

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YOU ARE SOMEBODY SPECIAL!!!
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