Yeah, I'm still stuck in a not-so-good place.
I feel as if The Battle is sapping all my energy. Keeping me from focusing on any productive work, whether career or even Pesach prep.
I feel as if my psyche is at its limit in absorbing the mental distraction etc.
I feel as if Hashem isn't about to take the irritability away, so that I have to do this myself.
And of course, there's only one obvious way to me, for taking away this irritability etc.
At least, one obvious enough that I see it in front of me at all times. Acting out.
I can speak such a good game, so it seems, when it comes to posting for others, and even when posting on the work I need to do for myself.
But when the going gets tough, and my flesh is buzzing, and my need to keep it together for wife, kids, career, etc seems to be compelling,
My first instinct is to just give it up, give in, and have a little binge of whatever it takes to feel better.
YET I'M NOT DOING IT. WHY?
EGO, TO 'JUST SHOW THEM GUYS' THAT I AIN'T NO ADDICT & COULD STOP ANYTIME I WANT.
FRUMKEIT, TO SEE IF I HAVE A CHANCE AT PULLING CLOSER TO A 613/613 SCORE IN THE TEST OF LIFE?
ADDICTION, BECAUSE THE Y'H DOES HAVE A PULL ON ME (OR, ON SOME OF ME) BEYOND WHAT I SEE
WIRING SYSTEM, SINCE SOME LUSTS, MIGHT NOT BE AS SIMPLE AS OTHER LUSTS, TO DEFINE... AS LUST
FEAR, OF ANYTHING FROM MY STINKY PARNASSA SITUATION TO EMOTIONAL INTIMACY WITH WIFE TO ???
PART OF ME WANTS TO FIGURE THIS OUT SO 'I' CAN MAKE SOME PROGRESS.
PART OF ME WANTS TO CRY ON TATTY'S SHOULDER (HKB'H) THAT HE'LL WANT TO FIX IT.
PART OF ME SAYS, ENOUGH WITH THE MENTAL M**N HERE: WHO CARES WHY! JUST DO IT.
And while this dialogue continues, I continue my count for reasons I can't really explain.
Day 64.