Rage ATM wrote on 13 Jan 2010 15:15:
congrats momo on your new record...you have simply amazed me like no one else here...please give me a beracha to be like you one day...to actually change one's personality for the better is so so hard...i know i have flaws in the ways i deal with people but its so hard for me to change...i hope to be like momo...one day...
Wow rage, you never cease to amaze me. Thanks for the complement.
The personality change is due to having a different outlook, which was achieved for me through therapy, DC's calls, and constant work. I slip up a lot, but I think I'm moving in the right direction. At least I'm aware of what I'm doing and why I behave in a certain way, which I wasn't before.
If you want to change, I suggest tackling one trait at a time.
And don't forget someone wise once said that it's easier to learn all of Shas than to change one character trait.