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Re: bardichev's battle 26 Aug 2009 18:19 #14343

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Re: bardichev's battle 28 Aug 2009 16:59 #14670

bardichev	oy yoy SHABBOS KOIDESH KEEP UP THE GOOD AND HARD WORK SEE YOU ALL AT THE TISH!!!!! I BLESS YOU ALL WITH SHABBOS MAY YOU FIND PEACE BLESSING AND THE CLARITY OF MIND TO SEE THE MIRACLES HASHEM IS PERFORMING!!! bARDICHEV
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Re: bardichev's battle 31 Aug 2009 17:02 #14934

bardichev

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If we do not learn to despise lust, meaning the animalistic actions that people so wontonly succumb to , then even if we are successful in 'building up' yiras shomayim and squashing it, who says we will be successful all the time? all one needs is a SINGLE downfall. It becomes unlikely that we will have a perfect record.

DESPISING LUST WOW!! THATS A TALL ORDER
ESPECIALLY FOR BOCHRIM WHO CAN NOT HANDLE THE FACT THAT THEY ARE LUSTING IN THE FIRST PLACE

A CLASSIC "TRICK" OF THE Y"H IS TO GET ONE "TOLOOK" AND THEN HIT HIM WITH ALL THE AVEIROS HE WAS OIVER.

I THINK THAT ONE NEEDS TO TAKE A COOLER AND CALMER APPROSCH

BECAUSE YOU CAN DESPISE LUST UNTIL..UNTIL.. THE NEXT TIME YOU FEEEEL THE URGE TO LUST

ARE YOU CRAZY DO YOU THINK YOUR MIND IS GONNA TELL YOUR HEART HEY! I AM IN MIDDLE OF DESPISING YOU

BUDDY ID DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY

WE NEED TO COMMUNICATE ESPECIALLY TO OUR YOUNG BOYS AND GIRLS THAT THE FEELINGS THAT THEY FEEL AND THE URGES THEY HAVE ARE 1000% NORMAL

NOW THESE "NORMAL" FEELINGS NEED TO HAVE "NORMAL" REACTIONS.

AND THAT IS HOW YOU DEVELOPE "NORMAL" BEHAVOIR PATTERNS

IF A BOCHUR TELLS HIS REBBE HE HAS A PROBLEM RIRDING THE CITY BUS BECAUSE HIS EYES ARE ALL OVER THE PLACE
AND HIS REBBE TELL HIM OMG WHAAAT DID YOU SAY YOU LITTLE DUDDING MENUVAL ETC ETC ETC

YOU CAN BET WE WILL HAVE A LITTLE BUDDING MENUVAL

BUT.. BUT.. IF THE REBBE LIKE SOMEONE MENTIONED HERE ( I HAD SUCH A REBBE) SAYS TZADDIK DON'T FEEL TOO BAD

I ALSO STRUGGLE IN THIS AREA EVERYONE DOES AND I WILL GIVE YOU "EITZOS" HOW DO CONTROL AND BALANCE

THAE BOOM! ANOTHER NORMAL PERSON JUST ENTERED SOCIETY

MY TWO KOPEKS
bardichev

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Re: bardichev's battle 31 Aug 2009 19:37 #14967

Dov
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That was worth a lot more than two Kopeks! It's horrible to "give in", can be counterproductive to just "despise" it, and suicidal to mud-wrestle with it.
For anyone to learn how to live as a person with a Y"H needs a little sechel, a lot of trust in Hashem, and a lifetime of siyata diSmaya, period. In a way, it may actually be easier for an addict, cuz he/she can't afford to wrestle with it, can't give in to it, and needs to l earn how to just fall onto Hashem.
SYNICISM WARNING AHEAD! (enter at your own risk)
No rebbe will condemn his student's YH with as much disgust as the rebbe who is losing the battle with his own YH.
Well, don't say I didn't warn you...

"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

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Re: bardichev's battle 31 Aug 2009 19:48 #14973

bardichev

rebberebber=DOV

OUCH DOES THE TRUTH HURT

No rebbe will condemn his student's YH with as much disgust as the rebbe who is losing the battle with his own YH.
Well, don't say I didn't warn you...

I CAN NOT FIGURE OUT IF WE ARE DISAGREEING

DESPISING YOUR YH ONLY WORKS UNTIL THE NEW REPACKAGED RE-INTRODUCED RE-BRANDED Y"H IS INTRODUCED

WITH ALL ITS BELLS AND WHISTLES

DOVID HAMELECH SAYS IN TEHILLIM

TACHLIS SINAA SINASIM

LIT. THE I HATED THEM (YH) TO ITS MAX

THE SFORIM HAKDOSHIM EXPLAIN TACHLIS =THE OUTCOME OF HATE

A HATE IS NOT ENOUGH
B HATE MAKES YOU A HATER

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Re: bardichev's battle 01 Sep 2009 12:54 #15090

Shmilu Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	GGGGGGEVALDZHE BRIEDER VUS SHLUFSTI??? Shmilu (formerly known as SD,YSR)
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Re: bardichev's battle 01 Sep 2009 14:03 #15102

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bardichev wrote on 31 Aug 2009 17:02:

WE NEED TO COMMUNICATE ESPECIALLY TO OUR YOUNG BOYS AND GIRLS THAT THE FEELINGS THAT THEY FEEL AND THE URGES THEY HAVE ARE 1000% NORMAL

NOW THESE "NORMAL" FEELINGS NEED TO HAVE "NORMAL" REACTIONS.

AND THAT IS HOW YOU DEVELOPE "NORMAL" BEHAVOIR PATTERNS

IF A BOCHUR TELLS HIS REBBE HE HAS A PROBLEM RIRDING THE CITY BUS BECAUSE HIS EYES ARE ALL OVER THE PLACE
AND HIS REBBE TELL HIM OMG WHAAAT DID YOU SAY YOU LITTLE DUDDING MENUVAL ETC ETC ETC

YOU CAN BET WE WILL HAVE A LITTLE BUDDING MENUVAL

BUT.. BUT.. IF THE REBBE LIKE SOMEONE MENTIONED HERE ( I HAD SUCH A REBBE) SAYS TZADDIK DON'T FEEL TOO BAD

I ALSO STRUGGLE IN THIS AREA EVERYONE DOES AND I WILL GIVE YOU "EITZOS" HOW DO CONTROL AND BALANCE

THAE BOOM! ANOTHER NORMAL PERSON JUST ENTERED SOCIETY

Reb B.,
Would you please elaborate on the eitzos?
Thanks,
Kutan

Rashi, Breishis (10:25)

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Re: bardichev's battle 01 Sep 2009 14:10 #15106

bardichev	BOCHUR EITZOS?? OR MARRIED MEN EITZOS??
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Re: bardichev's battle 01 Sep 2009 15:01 #15119

sunnycheetah84 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1043 Karma: 0	bardichev wrote on 01 Sep 2009 14:10: BOCHUR EITZOS?? OR MARRIED MEN EITZOS?? bachur please. never mind. why not give us both? but bachur first, please. thanks! kutan
	Rashi, Breishis (10:25) Last Edit: by Sdayur.

Re: bardichev's battle 01 Sep 2009 21:28 #15253

bardichev	bleee nedder tomorrow sorry b
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Re: bardichev's battle 01 Sep 2009 21:53 #15261

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	R' b - Please don't forget some good eitzos for married men who act like bochurim. I don't want to feel left out! ;D - D
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same." Last Edit: by Helpmeplease613.

Re: bardichev's battle 01 Sep 2009 21:55 #15264

bardichev	YOISH!! ( HABIB YIDDISH FOR OMG ) TOO MUCH PRESSURE b
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Re: bardichev's battle 01 Sep 2009 22:14 #15267

Tomim2B	How about sharing the secret to driving with your eyes closed? What if you're the bus-driver? :D
	Last Edit: 01 Sep 2009 22:20 by Kidushawon.

Re: bardichev's battle 02 Sep 2009 00:09 #15281

sunnycheetah84 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1043 Karma: 0	The suspense is building. :o I'm holding on even tighter to my chimesh.
	Rashi, Breishis (10:25) Last Edit: by Shmiras einayim.

Re: bardichev's battle 02 Sep 2009 15:25 #15365

bardichev

bARDICHEV IS SOOOOOOOOOOO TIRED

I WENT TO A WEDDING AND DANCED "ALL NIGHT LONG"

I AM SO CHARLIE HORSE I CANT THINK

I OWE THE "OILEM " SOMETHING HERE

AND I OWE THE E.N. A POST

OH PLEASE DEAREST FRIENDS

HAVE RACHMANUS ON A TIRED CHOOSID FROM _____ THAT USED TO LIVE IN FLATBUSH

HEY HEILIGE LETAKAIN I WILL BE IN FLAT BUSH TODAY BE"H

MINCHA IN LANDAUS YOU BET

VEGGIE PIZZA ON CONEY

U BET

COFFE IN YUSSIES (18TH AVE BP) U BET

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
b

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