DEAR FRIENDS

THANKS FOR ALL THE WARM WISHES!!

I MISSED YOU ALL "MORE" THAN YOU MISSED ME

WHERE WAS I??

I WAS EVERYWHERE YOU WERE

HOME ,SHUL, WORK, DEPARTMENT OF MOTOR VEHICLES, COUNTRY, LEIBY’S LEVAYA (OB"M),TARGET, LOWES, POMEGRANATE, SLOATSBURG REST AREA, POST OFFICE ETC.

WHY DIDN’T I POST??

I NEEDED TO LEAVE THE FORUM AND LOOK MYSELF IN THE EYE, AND FIGURE OUT WHO I AM AND WHAT AM I DOING

DID I ACCOMPLISH MY STATED OBJECTIVE??

YES AND NO


IN A SAFER WORLD I WOULD THROW OFF THE ANONYMITY OF MY BEING ON THE FORUM

WHAT I DID THE PAST FEW WEEKS WAS MEET AND TALK TO PEOPLE THE WAY G-D INTENDED

I AM "LIVING LIFE"

I DON'T OR CAN'T RUN AWAY FROM LIFE

(pssst>.. teeny weenie secret)NEITHER CAN ANY ONE

ALL MODES OF ESCAPISM IS JUST THAT A MODE

IT'S NOT LIVING LIFE

IT JUST PUSHES OF REALITY FOR A FEW MORE MINUTES

SO FOR THE CURIOUS

I AM B"H CLEAN AS A WHISTLE

KAYN YIRBU

I"M BACK AND I”M HERE FOR ALL OF YOU





SPECIAL THANKS TO A FEW PEOPLE

GUARD HE'S A MALACH

ZEMMY TOOOOOOOOOOT!!!!

BEN DERDUYA

RAGE

RAMATGAN




AS I ALWAYS SAY

AND WILL CONTINUE TO SAY

KEEP ON TRUCKING

IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE WHERE OR WHY YOU FELL

FELL SHMELL


HUMBLER AND HAPPIER THAN EVER

bardichev

Welcome Back Rebbe!

It's takke a kuntz to be humbler than ever having become a (gasp...)

GLOBAL MODERATOR

Nice to see that your caps are still working...

E

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!



k'mayim karim al nefesh ayeifah!!!!!





... & after last week's heat we all know what THAT means!!!  ;D ;D ;D

TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A SPECIAL SHKOYIZH TO WORLD/SHTEEBLE!!!

THANKYOU

THNAK YOU

THANK YOU!!!

AND ECHOES OF THE REBBE

PLEASE KEEP IT UP

SPREAD THE SIMCHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rebbe b, it is really great to have you back

SPREAD THE SIMCHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AHH MECHAYA!!! LIKE A BREATH OF FRESH AIR!

IT'S GOOD TO HAVE YOU BACK, REB B!!!  ;D ;D

WOW!

THIS POSTING IN CAPS IS CONTAGIOUS -EVEN GUARD IS DOING IT!!!

I"D BETTER GET OUT OF HERE BEFORE IT'S TOO -----

AAAAAARGGGH!

IT IS TOO LATE!!!

Welcome back!

This should be prime ice cream season... I thought you will come back when the season slows down. Anyway anyone in for a Welcome back ice cream party?

tonight at eight at----
Inside Scoop
Frozen in Nova Scotia
Super Scooper
California Swirls
The Frozen Heron
carnival
Sprinkles
Sweetwater
Lakeside Licks
Lochs & Licks
Lucky Lickers
Licks n' Lollipops
Sticky Fingers Shop
Icebreakers
The Icebox
Ice Flows
The Ice Man Commeth
Feisty Flavor

Any suggestions?

The Rebbe Reb b waited for the right time to come back to us here. Thanks for posting again. Let's both ask Hashem's help to be husbands and tatties first, and "poster"s second.

The geulah comes inside the churban itself, and the Rebbe returns in the middle oif deim drei vochen!

Nice to have a friend back.

ben durdayah wrote on 26 Jul 2011 20:03:


BB he got 4500 posts I think he's pretty global

I get shivers up me spine just seeing his name in blue like that...

:'(

(tears of joy and dveikus)

WE'RE HAPPY TO HAVE YOU BACK WITH US REB B

FORUM HAS NOT BEEN EVEN REMOTELY THE SAME WITH OUT YOU

welcome welcome wlecome
welcome back to the forum,
now heres you official welcome


Welcome to our community, you have finally come home!

We're all in the same boat here. Tzuras Rabim Chatzi Nechama   Once you've arrived, there's no turning back. Everyone here will just grab a hold of you and pull you up with them!

GYE Program in a Nutshell: (Right Click the link and press "Save Link/Target As" to save the PDF file to your computer).

'Guard Your Eyes' offers a unique approach to helping people by recognizing that there are many different levels in the struggle for "Shmiras Ainayim" and "Shmiras Habris". After studying the experience of hundreds of religious strugglers over the past few years, we put together the suggestions and recommendations that we feel are best for the various levels. We divided the tools, features and services that GYE offers into 8 different levels. This "GYE Program in a Nutshell can help people quickly identify at what level of the struggle they are at, and which tools and features would help them most at their particular level.

Here are some quick things you can do to help you jump straight into recovery:

1) Make sure to install a strong filter. It will be almost impossible to break free of this while having all the garbage within a mouse click away. See this page for one good filter option, along with instructions on how to install it best – and give away the password to our "filter Gabai"… See this page for another 20 (or so) filter ideas and information… We also highly advise installing "Reporting Software" such as webchaver.org to give you some accountability, because filters alone are usually not sufficient and they can often be bypassed.

2) Join the daily Chizuk e-mail lists to get fresh chizuk every day.

3) Scientific studies have shown that it takes 90 days to change a neural thought pattern that was ingrained in the brain through addictive behaviors. Did you join the 90 day chart on-line? Sign up over here.

4) Post away on this forum! You will get tons of daily Chizuk and support. This disease can't be beat alone. It works best when you get out of isolation!

5) GuardYourEyes also offers many free anonymous phone conferences where you can join a group of other frum Yidden, along with an experienced sponsor. See www.guardyoureyes.org > Tools > Phone Conferences for many different options. Our conferences are taking place every day, morning, noon and night… Joining a phone group would be a tremendous step in the right direction for you and help you learn freedom from this addiction. Not only will you learn the secret of the 12-Steps – which is known to be the world's most powerful program for beating addiction having helped millions world wide, but the daily call will be another way of GETTING OUT OF ISOLATION and connecting with others who are going through what you are.

6) If you need more general guidance, write to our e-mail helpline at gye.help@gmail.com or call our hotline at 646-600-8100.

7) Download and read the "Guard Your Eyes Handbook". This handbook outlines the GYE approach in detail, and makes our network much more effective and helpful for people. The handbook has two parts:

A) The first part, "Attitude & Perspective", details 30 basic principles to help us maintain the proper attitude and perspective on this struggle. Here are some examples: Understanding what we are up against, what it is that Hashem wants from us, how we can use this struggle for tremendous growth, how we can deal with bad thoughts, discovering how to redirect the power of our souls, understanding that every little bit counts, learning how to bounce back up after a fall, and so on and so forth…

The second part, "The 18 Tools", detail suggested tools and techniques, in progressive order, beginning with the most basic and fundamental approaches to dealing with this addiction, and continuing down through increasingly earnest and powerful methods. No matter what level our addiction may have advanced to, we will be able to find the right tools to break free in this handbook!

May Hashem be with you!