Yiddle2: That's amazing. Thanks. (I wonder if spelling variants would offer additional info. Hmmnn.)
And, you've sadly reminded me that folks could reach this forum straight from Google, without even having heard of it. Which means it's not just frum Jews who think they might have reason to be here. It could just be some goyish underage kid researching a Jewish phrase like this for school.
Which gives me a big "ouch" of a reminder. My next door neighbor etc could chance onto this site. Even if they don't connect my screen name (and some might), they could easily start reading some personal account and realize it's ME.
I'm not even SO worried about folks finding out I have issues with se*ual stuff. (There are worse issues out there.) I'm not even worried about the shadchanim or machatunim or siblings or whatever finding out about that. But I've put SO MANY other details onto this forum if you really look. My wife's singing, my greatest fears, the length of my , my disdain for Fuhgeddaboudit-Land, everything.
I daven that I never get some smart dude calling on my private cell phone some day with some question that makes me wanna be Korach (fall into hole in earth).
Curse you, google.