Hi everyone,

I am over halfway to 90days free B'H

I feel this is one of biggest struggles of the generation, why can't the woman be more educated about the struggles their husband will likely be going through at some point in their marriage?

I would like to reach a stage where I don't need to login to GYE to update my dashboard etc.. its so difficult doing this behind her back?

looking forward to hearing anyone's thoughts on this

whenever i meet a rav or mentor that i can talk to, i try to engage them in conversation on this topic. If i believe they will be receptive, i send them a copy of the book the battle of the generation. I am lucky that i am at an age where i don't have to worry about what anyone thinks of my struggles. I don't advertise my struggles but i am eager to share the resources that helped me climb out. Ultimately, i do believe that there will be better education on this topic for women. it may take another couple of years but there is alot more understanding amongst rabbonim....

Also, If you listen to podcasts, Eli Nash and Rabbi YY Jacobsen have a great 3.5 hour podcast specifically addressing the shame of this addiction.