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Hey guys 10 May 2022 11:27 #380579

  • willron
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Hey guys, so this isn’t much but I wanted to reach out and ask for help. I am struggling a lot and I’m feeling kinda hopeless now honestly. I’m started to feel so impure like I’m hitting or I have hit a point of no return. Can someone help me?

thanks,
willron

Re: Hey guys 10 May 2022 13:27 #380581

  • davidt
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Sorry to hear about your difficult struggles and hopelessness. 
​Please elaborate more about your situation (if you feel comfortable doing it) so we can try to be with you in your tough journey.  
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
feel free to reach out @  ahavayirah@gmail.com

Re: Hey guys 11 May 2022 12:52 #380609

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Welcome!

Perhaps you could share a little more about your situation. If you don't feel comfortable doing it "publicly," perhaps you would be more comfortable doing it privately with another GYE member or an accountability partner (anonymously of course). Please let us know.

Also, please check out these great free resources: 
ebook- The Battle of the Generation 
Audio series- The Fight
They're very good to start with.
See below in my signature for the links.

​Hatzlocha!
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge
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