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New here 14 Jan 2022 18:28 #375927

falafel Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 5 Karma: 0	I know usually day 1 you're supposed to start on a "strong day" (when you feel like you'll never do it again) but I honestly feel like I'm "Weak" already, and its only been a couple of hours
	"The pain after giving in is so much greater than the pain of not giving in"

Re: New here 16 Jan 2022 07:14 #375949

ShmaYisroel OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 27 Karma: 3	בס"ד Keep plotting on, even if you fall get your act together and try again. I know very well what you are going through. All the best and הצלחה רבה
	Last Edit: 16 Jan 2022 07:15 by ShmaYisroel.

Re: New here 16 Jan 2022 07:55 #375950

zedj
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Welcome Falafel!

You might "feel" weak but with the right tools and some work you will find yourself on solid ground BEZ"H

GYE offers tons of tools, shiurim ect ect (knock yourself out!)
Try the new "FLIGHT 2 FREEDOM" program.
Stay connected and keep the chevra updated on your progress.

Can you share abit more about your situation?

Have you ever spoken to someone about your struggle?
do you have filters On accessible devices ?
What have you tried to stop?

Wishing you much hatzlocha!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: New here 16 Jan 2022 12:31 #375964

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2791 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3956	Falafel wrote on 14 Jan 2022 18:28: I know usually day 1 you're supposed to start on a "strong day" (when you feel like you'll never do it again) but I honestly feel like I'm "Weak" already, and its only been a couple of hours You are normal buddy, very normal. Maybe post some more info about your challenges so the chevra can respond and help steer you in the right direction.
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: New here 17 Jan 2022 19:56 #376046

falafel Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 5 Karma: 0	Thank you guys for the support. I am working my way through F2F.
	"The pain after giving in is so much greater than the pain of not giving in"

Re: New here 18 Jan 2022 00:40 #376064

falafel Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 5 Karma: 0	Have not spoken to anyone in person. no I do not have a filter, as I use an unusual device. Am in the midst of trying to figure out how to do it
	"The pain after giving in is so much greater than the pain of not giving in"

Re: New here 18 Jan 2022 12:05 #376080

Hashem Help Me
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Falafel wrote on 18 Jan 2022 00:40:

Have not spoken to anyone in person.
no I do not have a filter, as I use an unusual device. Am in the midst of trying to figure out how to do it

You can call TAG (Technology Awareness Group) - they have very tech savvy guys who can hopefully advise regarding filtering unique devices. They have offices in most large Orthodox communities and are eager to assist.

Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com

My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned

My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: New here 18 Jan 2022 13:54 #376086

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 18 Jan 2022 12:05:

Falafel wrote on 18 Jan 2022 00:40:

Have not spoken to anyone in person.
no I do not have a filter, as I use an unusual device. Am in the midst of trying to figure out how to do it

And if you're don't want to do that, you can post (or pm) which device you're using here. There are some very tech savvy guys on this forum also...

Off the forum for now.
My Thread (Not for inspiration, but for random bits and pieces of my journey, as well as the inspiring responses of others: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/375514-Enough-is-Enough
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There are tips, tools, and techniques, but there are no shortcuts.

Here's to our wives and girlfriends...may they never meet! ~ Groucho Marx
Optimism is the madness of insisting that all is well when we are miserable.-Voltaire
You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today.- Abraham Lincoln
If you don't know where you are going, you might wind up someplace else.- Yogi Berra
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Re: New here 18 Jan 2022 13:57 #376087

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Check out the other tools tab on the side of this page, click on filters, and fill out the form for assistance with filters. Or just click this: guardyoureyes/protection to get to the form. Hatzlacha!

Re: New here 18 Jan 2022 16:12 #376106

joetyh Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 182 Karma: 20	most devices running android, windows or apple ios/macOs can be filtered. you got something else?
	feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com

Re: New here 20 Jan 2022 17:43 #376234

falafel Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 5 Karma: 0	Yes it has a different OS
	"The pain after giving in is so much greater than the pain of not giving in"

Re: New here 20 Jan 2022 19:00 #376247

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Welcome Falafel!

I think we can all attest that without a filter we are hopeless!! But with a filter we are hopeful!!

Please stay around, continue to post and read too.

Looking forward to watching your success.

"The pain after giving in is so much greater than the pain of not giving in"

My Thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/361746-Striving-for-Excellence
Believe in yourself: guardyoureyes.com/forum/15-The-Torah-amp-Chizuk-Approach/357766-Bunch-of-Quotes-I-Gained-from-over-the-years

Check this out too for some Chizuk: www.guardureyes.com/GUE/PDFs/eBooks/The%20First%20Day%20of%20the%20Rest%20of%20My%20Life.pdf

Re: New here 20 Jan 2022 22:11 #376258

joetyh Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 182 Karma: 20	Falafel wrote on 20 Jan 2022 17:43: Yes it has a different OS which OS? Linux?
	feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com

Re: New here 23 Jan 2022 03:58 #376328

falafel Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 5 Karma: 0	No. Something else
	"The pain after giving in is so much greater than the pain of not giving in"