Hi guys, Its my first time writing something here, took me some time to get used to this. working on my way up to 90 days! up to 32 clean days B'h! while I'm working on my part, my wife is trying to do her best on her end, however we have been married to two and half years and having sex has always been a struggle for us, I'm a man! I like doing it......and my wife is very sensory and doesn't like be naked. and this causes a lot of problems.
Can any one relate? any solutions? I change diaper's, I watch my son Shabbos morning for two so my wife can get some sleep, I wash dish's.

Thanks!

Welcome! You certainly are not alone in this. There are many threads on the BB forum discussing similar issues. May I suggest moving this thread to the BB forum as it seems like it belongs there.
Hatzlocha!

Hi. For a minute I thought you were responding to a thread I started as the title is the same! See attached link:
guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/362141-Can-anyone-relate
My subject over there is not the same as yours. However I can relate to what your having a hard time with as I went through similar situations way back when. For me it was so frustrating being that I am a man ( as you so rightly put it!) and getting all involved...and ....then fall flat on my face when my wife wasn’t comfortable getting undressed or involved. She’s very sensory too. Currently we’re dealing with a difficult situation (see my thread) so this isn’t even on the table. I don’t have much help to offer But I feel for you and can most definitely relate. Hatzlochah!

Dont know how to move it, can you advise?

@k9 saw ur thread. I feel sorry for you and wish you good luck in all whats going on.
Happy to hear that you can relate.

Hurt wrote on 11 Apr 2021 15:46:

I can't relate as I'm not married.

This is a real man! 

I hope things pick up for the better and all works out.
as the famous saying goes "think good and it will be good"