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preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 17 Jun 2020 19:58 #351422

tcrvo Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 16 Karma: 1	Beezras Hashem Yisbarach I hope to entre the new year clean! please help me Hashem to be strong.
	Since maintaining a healthy and sound body is among the ways of God (Rambam De'ot 4;1)

Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 17 Jun 2020 20:42 #351423

Meyer M. OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 257 Karma: 16	Wow! I wasn’t even thinking of Rosh Hashanah yet...Kudos to you!
	Your best teacher for success is your last mistake Last Edit: 17 Jun 2020 20:42 by Meyer M..

Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 19 Jun 2020 03:15 #351500

tcrvo Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 16 Karma: 1	I desided to slow down a bit, instead of focusing on the whole 90 days till Rosh Hashana. I'll focus on one day at a time Preparing my self for this weeks Shabbes to be clean.
	Since maintaining a healthy and sound body is among the ways of God (Rambam De'ot 4;1)

Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 19 Jun 2020 03:19 #351501

Meyer M. OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 257 Karma: 16	Good for you! Let’s go!
	Your best teacher for success is your last mistake

Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 19 Jun 2020 14:18 #351528

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Its almost Shabbes boruch hashem for your great help and my strenght.
i was just thinking about last weeks Parsha shlach (this week in Golus)
it starts and ends with something in comon
ספר במדבר - פרק י״ג
{ב} שְׁלַח־לְךָ֣ אֲנָשִׁ֗ים וְיָתֻ֙רוּ֙ אֶת־אֶ֣רֶץ כְּנַ֔עַן אֲשֶׁר־אֲנִ֥י נֹתֵ֖ן לִבְנֵ֣י יִשְׂרָאֵ֑ל אִ֣ישׁ אֶחָד֩ אִ֨ישׁ אֶחָ֜ד לְמַטֵּ֤ה אֲבֹתָיו֙ תִּשְׁלָ֔חוּ כֹּ֖ל נָשִׂ֥יא בָהֶֽם׃

ספר במדבר - פרק ט״ו
{לט} וְהָיָ֣ה לָכֶם֮ לְצִיצִת֒ וּרְאִיתֶ֣ם אֹת֗וֹ וּזְכַרְתֶּם֙ אֶת־כָּל־מִצְוֹ֣ת ה' וַעֲשִׂיתֶ֖ם אֹתָ֑ם וְלֹֽא־תָתֻ֜רוּ אַחֲרֵ֤י לְבַבְכֶם֙ וְאַחֲרֵ֣י עֵֽינֵיכֶ֔ם אֲשֶׁר־אַתֶּ֥ם זֹנִ֖ים אַחֲרֵיהֶֽם׃

We find in Kohelt also the same word towards Chachma, i am not sure if it is as negative as this one.
I was wondering if לתור can be also positive, and we have to choose the right one and not the wrong one.

any ideas?

Shabath Shalom

Since maintaining a healthy and sound body is among the ways of God
(Rambam De'ot 4;1)

Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 20 Jun 2020 20:47 #351550

tcrvo Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 16 Karma: 1	Shavuo tov Gut voch Shabbes was amaizing! Now I hope with hashems help to reach Rosh Hodesh clean, one day to go.
	Since maintaining a healthy and sound body is among the ways of God (Rambam De'ot 4;1)

Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 21 Jun 2020 23:38 #351602

tcrvo Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 16 Karma: 1	Boruch Hashem one more day passed now I reached Rosh Chodesh clean now help me Hashem to reach the first day of Tamuz clean
	Since maintaining a healthy and sound body is among the ways of God (Rambam De'ot 4;1) Last Edit: 21 Jun 2020 23:39 by tcrvo.

Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 22 Jun 2020 14:49 #351637

Snowflake Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 272 Karma: 26	Shkoiach!! One day at a time is the secret. Should you feel like you need help, do reach out. Our addiction causes us to isolate, so the best medicine is to do the opposite. Keep us posted
	אם יהיו חטאיכם כשנים, כשלג ילבינו

Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 22 Jun 2020 15:54 #351642

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Snowflake wrote on 22 Jun 2020 14:49:

Shkoiach!! One day at a time is the secret. Should you feel like you need help, do reach out. Our addiction causes us to isolate, so the best medicine is to do the opposite.
Keep us posted

Yes... Remember, addiction is a prison built on secrets, lies, shame, and isolation. Every time you open up to someone in honesty and love you are breaking down another chunk of those walls. Keep at it until you are free and there is nothing but a pile of rubble behind you.

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Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 22 Jun 2020 21:11 #351648

tcrvo Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 16 Karma: 1	It starts to get dificult, day #5 is almost over. Boruch Hashem i kept myself busy so its over tomorow is supose to be a bumpy day on my schedule Oiy Riboinoi Shel Oilem helf a yid i hope i will have the strenght to overcome the dificulties.
	Since maintaining a healthy and sound body is among the ways of God (Rambam De'ot 4;1)

Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 23 Jun 2020 20:51 #351684

tcrvo Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 16 Karma: 1	Oiy gevald I want her She is too tired Its so tempting too look for other.... oiy Riboinoi shel oilem give me the koiches
	Since maintaining a healthy and sound body is among the ways of God (Rambam De'ot 4;1)

Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 24 Jun 2020 04:01 #351703

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Re: preparing my self for Rosh Hashana 16 Jul 2020 21:48 #352672

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SHALOM everybody
a month ago I came back after a few years
I restarted counting 90 days, long goal is to be clean for Rosh Hashana.
short goals, i took every day at a time.
The reason i wasent posting here every day i was too busy with getting my self on track
I must thank a few people one I cant remember his user name but D. from L. if you remever to privet chat we had about 3 weeks ago, thank you so much you made me relise that my problem is way deeper then most people around here.
which led to a phone call to Menachem from GYE thank you for your advice to speak to Dov.
Thanks Dov I hate you for telling me the truth in my face, but i guess it most of happen one way or another.
which led me to make an apointment with a psycologist to get some therapy.
in the meantime I started to go to SA.

The reason why I write you all this, because I relised I need help and I cant help my self alone so I did everything in my power to get help. The problem I have in a few words I am a happy married man that fall in love with another girl. Enough said for now

If there is a will there is a way.

Since maintaining a healthy and sound body is among the ways of God
(Rambam De'ot 4;1)