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On the Way to 90-Days

Making it happen

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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Making it happen 15 Oct 2019 17:38 #344194

iwillnevergiveup Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 4	I am starting my own thread today to keep myself in check to keep up my daily learning, update my chart, and ultimately conquer desire for good. I recently made it over 50 days and know I can do it. I hope all chime in, and would like to keep this thread for inspiration, for people to post their milestones, and most importantly each other to look out that no one “falls off the band wagon”.

Re: Making it happen 16 Oct 2019 10:51 #344201

iwillnevergiveup Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 4	Day 1 Here we go. Read an article on overcoming desire. Will watch a video from Rabbi Schaifer later today. Read one a day https://guardyoureyes.com/the-gye-program/the-30-principles/21-principles-for-the-struggle

Re: Making it happen 17 Oct 2019 07:24 #344220

iwillnevergiveup Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 4	Day 2 Yesterday went day well. I did what I said I would and need to keep it up.

Re: Making it happen 17 Oct 2019 16:28 #344230

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 1499 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2511	Keep it up!
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: Making it happen 20 Oct 2019 11:03 #344295

iwillnevergiveup Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 4	Day 5 shabbos was harder because of lack of inspiration material. I wasn't careful enough in street but am still clean. 2 days left for a week.

Re: Making it happen 21 Oct 2019 18:24 #344299

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not lusting is an acquired habit, the 90 day journey gets easier when you get used to it as a new way of life.

Untill then it's like holding your breath, or "whiteknuckeling" it in AA terminology. it might work,and it's also a good thing, but it's sooooooo much HARDER to be clean like that. it's so much easier to make a new habit out of sobriety and just take care to keep emotionaly ballanced

KOTGW

Re: Making it happen 22 Oct 2019 18:55 #344305

iwillnevergiveup Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 4	Day 7 One week clean and many to come.

Re: Making it happen 22 Oct 2019 20:48 #344307

keepal613 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 3 Karma: 1	keep it up!!

Re: Making it happen 23 Oct 2019 11:22 #344324

iwillnevergiveup Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 4	Day 8 going one day at a time. Believe in yourself, if god gave you a challenge he gave the ability to fight it.

Re: Making it happen 25 Oct 2019 11:51 #344463

iwillnevergiveup Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 4	Day 10 you don’t need to lust. Simple, just keep repeating it to yourself.

Re: Making it happen 25 Oct 2019 19:12 #344502

iwillnevergiveup Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 4	If you taught yourself you need to lust you can teach yourself you don’t need to lust.

Re: Making it happen 27 Oct 2019 11:54 #344531

iwillnevergiveup Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 4	Day 12 So when the yetzer hara can’t get you to do something by day, he does it for you at night. Well it’ll just have to be a sign of progress, because while it ain’t easy, falling isn’t an option anymore.

Re: Making it happen 27 Oct 2019 14:34 #344536

AsimpleJew Current streak: 273 days OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 30 Karma: 0	I saw once in a Sefer from Reb Aharala Roth that when the yetzer hora sees that he can't get you throughout the day when you have your bchira, he will make sure to get you at night when you don't have a bchira, just to break your mood, therefore he says to just ignore what happened at night (I do a mikva and say tikun haklaly) and go on like nothing happened.
	Last Edit: 27 Oct 2019 14:35 by AsimpleJew.

Re: Making it happen 27 Oct 2019 15:04 #344537

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From Reb Nachmen in לקוטי מוהר"ן תנינא · צב
וְאֵלּוּ הָעֲשָׂרָה קַפִּיטְל תְּהִלִּים הֵם תִּקּוּן גָּדוֹל מְאֹד מְאֹד לָעִנְיָן הַנַּ"ל וּמִי שֶׁזּוֹכֶה לְאָמְרָם בְּאוֹתוֹ הַיּוֹם אֵין צָרִיך לִפְחֹד עוֹד כְּלָל מִפְּגָם הַנּוֹרָא שֶׁל הַמִּקְרֶה, חַס וְשָׁלוֹם כִּי בְּוַדַּאי נִתְתַּקֵּן עַל יְדֵי זֶה

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Either way "IwillNeverGiveUp" you're good keep it up:like:

Re: Making it happen 28 Oct 2019 18:37 #344615

iwillnevergiveup Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 119 Karma: 4	Day 13 No letting your guard down even if it’s going easy. And when it’s going hard, train your brain it’s not an option. I will do everything in my power (btw far more than you may think) and god will do the rest. Thank you to all those who read my posts! Your thank you’s, private messages and tips are truly helpful. Please keep them coming. FIGHT ON.