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frustrated 01 Sep 2019 15:26 #343288

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Gosh im so frustrated. I feel like im never going to be satisfied sexually. I have so much more excitement looking at other women then my wife. Having sex with my wife never  does it for me. An hour later i can still watch porn. My biggest issue is when i go on the street and i see women that get me excited it frustrates me bec i wish i would have that with my wife

Re: frustrated 01 Sep 2019 15:52 #343289

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dear shmuels
i feel very bad for you
question
how much do u enjoy your wife 
how much fun is intimacy at home
how fluid and smooth is your relationship with her?
maybe we need to work on this
wish you well

Re: frustrated 01 Sep 2019 17:22 #343293

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shmules wrote on 01 Sep 2019 15:26:
Gosh im so frustrated. I feel like im never going to be satisfied sexually. I have so much more excitement looking at other women then my wife. Having sex with my wife never  does it for me. An hour later i can still watch porn. My biggest issue is when i go on the street and i see women that get me excited it frustrates me bec i wish i would have that with my wife

one time i saw a woman in the street and and felt attracted to her ,but of course i put my eyes back on the sidewalk, but as we got closer i looked up again to make sure i wont bump into her(really!), and lo and behold it was mrs. sleepy!, i learnt from that, im busy looking for something that i already posses,trust me, my wife aint miss america, but what im saying  is,even if i was married to miss america, id probably would be peeking at miss Czechoslovakia.
For an explanation on my choice of username and avatar see my first post

Re: frustrated 01 Sep 2019 17:27 #343294

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shmules wrote on 01 Sep 2019 15:26:
Gosh im so frustrated. I feel like im never going to be satisfied sexually. I have so much more excitement looking at other women then my wife. Having sex with my wife never  does it for me. An hour later i can still watch porn. My biggest issue is when i go on the street and i see women that get me excited it frustrates me bec i wish i would have that with my wife

another important point(if the above point wasnt important ,this one is)
did you ever hear of "stolen waters are sweet"?that could be a  reason for your dissatisfaction.
For an explanation on my choice of username and avatar see my first post
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