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TOPIC: Neil 3069 Views

Re: Neil 10 Mar 2019 00:09 #339490

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Nice Shabbos. 

Day 33

Re: Neil 10 Mar 2019 01:50 #339492

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Good stuff Neil....keep on with this sobriety.

Re: Neil 11 Mar 2019 07:47 #339539

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That was a tough day. Looked at pictures of clothed women, no porn. 

Day 34

Re: Neil 11 Mar 2019 14:26 #339540

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Neil,

It's great that you were able to hold yourself back.  But it can be a slippery slope looking at images that trigger you.  You're doing great so far, dont want to slip now.  34 days clean is amazing. 

Re: Neil 11 Mar 2019 23:17 #339551

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Much better day today. 

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Re: Neil 12 Mar 2019 00:28 #339552

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Happy to hear and happy for you 
Keep it up
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Re: Neil 12 Mar 2019 23:30 #339581

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Good day today. 

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Re: Neil 13 Mar 2019 22:10 #339632

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A bit stressed today. 

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Re: Neil 15 Mar 2019 00:50 #339695

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Stressed over work and late for bed again. 

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Re: Neil 17 Mar 2019 07:43 #339752

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Short Friday and nice Shabbos. 

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Re: Neil 17 Mar 2019 12:48 #339754

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You are very inspiring. You are b'ezras Hashem sticking to a commitment beautifully. Continue with hatzlocha!
Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com

My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned

                    My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: Neil 17 Mar 2019 23:09 #339763

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Not a great day but not because of porn. 

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Re: Neil 18 Mar 2019 23:12 #339797

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Stressed. 

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Re: Neil 20 Mar 2019 00:21 #339827

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Very stressful day. 

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Re: Neil 20 Mar 2019 00:38 #339828

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Stress can be a major trigger. I had to retrain myself to find kosher stress relief. Exercise works best for me. Try to find what helps you the most. Hatzlocha buddy.
Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com

My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned

                    My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE
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