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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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TOPIC: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 55027 Views

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 14 Feb 2021 19:42 #363329

realestatemogul Current streak: 1523 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 399 Karma: 29	I love your drive to succeed! What are tools are you using to get to 90 days? Having a set of "tools" can help you stay focused and keep you from lapsing when it gets tough.
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 14 Feb 2021 21:19 #363342

davidt
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Boeing747 wrote on 12 Feb 2021 14:45:

Hello everyone, I have started 90 days around Kislev 20 , but this week I have relapsed. I had about 35-40 days left. I would appreciate some tips on how you motivate yourself. I had the yetzer hara overcome me, fogging my brain completely, I was weak and I broke. This time I'm going the full 90. Glad to be here.

When feeling weak we can tell ourselves, “just for today, I will stay clean.” “Just for this moment, I will stay clean.” The past and the future are out of our hands and belong only to Hashem. When we feel that we are about to fall, we may even tell ourselves that we reserve the right to act out tomorrow. We are not making a decision now for life. However, just for today we will do whatever we can to stay clean.

Your goal is not to conquer a life-long yetzer hora in one day! Simply putting up a fight is a tremendous accomplishment, and skipping this time, or even delaying it a little bit, is still worthwhile. Even if you ultimately do it, there is still value and tremendous sechar for every second you are able to be omeid b’nisayon.

"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
feel free to reach out @ ahavayirah@gmail.com

Last Edit: 14 Feb 2021 21:20 by davidt.

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 23 Mar 2021 04:36 #365931

realestatemogul Current streak: 1523 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 399 Karma: 29	96
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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 13 Apr 2021 04:55 #366756

realestatemogul Current streak: 1523 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 399 Karma: 29	117
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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 13 Apr 2021 11:31 #366762

hashem help me Current streak: 3029 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 4139	Hey, there is life after 120 too iyh…...
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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 11 Jun 2021 08:09 #369762

Striving Avreich OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 216 Karma: 13	How's it going?

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 08 Jul 2021 05:00 #370608

realestatemogul Current streak: 1523 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 399 Karma: 29	Bh! Going good at 203... Every day is still a challenge, but BH I have put alot of "junk" behind me so I am fighting a much healthier battle.
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 23 Feb 2022 21:05 #377803

realestatemogul Current streak: 1523 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 399 Karma: 29	Never forget to check back in... 433
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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 28 Feb 2022 02:44 #377933

שבע יפול צדיק וקם OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 550 Karma: 33	Wow! Great to see you checking back in, Realestatemogul!

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 19 Jun 2022 11:18 #382111

realestatemogul Current streak: 1523 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 399 Karma: 29	549
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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 20 Jun 2022 05:49 #382158

shnitzel and kugel
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wowwowowow!!

Joined as a single bochur, Bh broke free (but still on watch) by using the tools on this website, therapy but mainly through getting married.

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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 20 Jun 2022 10:57 #382164

hashem help me Current streak: 3029 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 4139	WElcome back shnitzel! And mazel tov on 1,000!
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 16 Jan 2025 22:46 #429320

realestatemogul Current streak: 1523 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 399 Karma: 29	1492
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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 17 Jan 2025 00:20 #429336

stopsurvivingstartliving Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 439 Karma: 32	Wow! That's a heck a lot of days. Can I suggest you stick around more often and offer some insights to those of us still deep in the dark tunnel?
	SSSL's Story (Google Doc) [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.] Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread) Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com. My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.