All right. I don't know what was said since I was offline last night.
But, I can guess from whatever posts remain.
Shemirateinayim, I also had problems "chatting" with the girls on this site, and I banned girls from posting on my thread for a long time. Then I started recovering and see them as my sisters, sisters in recovery.
I find one "sister" in particular to be very serious and responsible with what she writes, and her struggle gives me tremendous chizuk (I think you know who you are
![](https://guardyoureyes.com/components/com_kunena/template/default/images/emoticons/new/wink.png)
). OMG! I just winked at a girl! AAAAAAAAHHHHHH! ;D
But seriously, if you aren't comfortable chatting with girls, that's OKey-Dokey, just ask them not to post on your thread. By why make them feel like they can't post anywhere but on their own space?
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