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A question 03 Jul 2016 16:15 #291269

  • cuidandome.
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I have a question. Recently  I was trying to look in my phone for something that wouldn't be fully pornographic,  just trigger,  but something that definitely I shouldn't be looking,  as is only the begging of  a slip.   Now, B'H,  I couldn't get anything due to my very efficient filter (at least to me,  not very technological savy). 
Is that consider a fall? 
 

Re: A question 03 Jul 2016 16:29 #291270

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What's wrong with falling?
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Re: A question 03 Jul 2016 18:24 #291273

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No. But let that be a warning. A fall is probably around the corner unless you plan now what you're going to do the next time an urge like that comes up. If you don't want to lose `your streak plan ahead,

Re: A question 03 Jul 2016 19:13 #291274

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cuidandome. wrote:
I have a question. Recently  I was trying to look in my phone for something that wouldn't be fully pornographic,  just trigger,  but something that definitely I shouldn't be looking,  as is only the begging of  a slip.   Now, B'H,  I couldn't get anything due to my very efficient filter (at least to me,  not very technological savy). 
Is that consider a fall?  

You have to be completely honest with yourself I think only you can answer that question 
however if counting it as a fall would take the wind out of your sails perhaps wait some time and then count it as a fall 
another thing is what are you trying to achieve with a a soberity streak real soberity or perhaps just just a number by you're name and a place on the wall of honour
Soberity is a journey NOT a destination 
 

Re: A question 04 Jul 2016 20:02 #291336

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Thank you for both answers,  both are important things to think about.  A821,  you are right,  sometimes the 90 days counting become a goal on itself,  and it shouldn't,  it's only a tool for achieving a soverity. 
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