Thanks for the reply!  I don't have a wife, but maybe if I envisioned someone like a sister or cousin that would shift my thinking a bit.  I relate to what you're saying about how our minds can create this distorted visage.  For me, I guess it was a lot of getting lost in my own head with what she's thinking about me and what she must be feeling about being in this meeting and how I should be the mentsch and the man and step forward and "save her" as you put it. It was less about physical attraction, but maybe a more spiritual attraction, in a fantasy type way of course.  

Honestly, I hadn't given much thought to how to deal with future meetings, but I think I'll deal with it as it comes, and try not to make this a bigger deal than it is.  Between my effort to surrender the thought last night and being busy today, it has not been on my mind much.

Great! Go forward with positivity