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up to day 48 20 Jul 2015 23:49 #259930

Joefrezman OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 7 Karma: 1	Its hard, because i feel like i want to act out to satisfy all the pain and stress i am going thru, but at the same time i know it is not the answer. IT is only a momentary pleasure and afterwards i ll feel worse and will get distracted from the real part of life. but i need to feel love and support. anybody out there to give me support?

Re: up to day 48 21 Jul 2015 00:13 #259931

changing OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 384 Karma: 63	YES!!! we are all here for you and love you! Dont do it! You are so right... the moment of pleasure is not worth the pain after. Thinking of you! Behatzlocho robo!!!

Re: up to day 48 21 Jul 2015 00:15 #259932

bigmoish
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Ditto. Some of us may even feel we are here a bit too much...

Handbook | Skep's Tips
My threads:
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/236327-Bigmoish-tries-to-be-good
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

"We have met the enemy and he is us" - Pogo
"Expectation is the mother of frustration" - gibbor120
"Today, damn it! Today!" - cordnoy
"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
WDHW!!!

Re: up to day 48 21 Jul 2015 00:47 #259936

polar bear OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 121 Karma: 7	You are not alone, hang in there!

Re: up to day 48 21 Jul 2015 02:05 #259944

abd297 OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 282 Karma: 12	I have had the same feelings and thought process multiple times today. It's just not worth it. I can't deal with knowing that I feel so bad afterwards and I don't want to start the whole process over again. Hang in there. Feelin' for you. KOP
	Let Hashem Do His Job! We need to jump off the conveyor belt of life and walk on our own. You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings. Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.

Re: up to day 48 21 Jul 2015 07:29 #259962

newlife OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 76 Karma: 5	Totally understand how you feel. We can give you ideas of solutions from today till tomorrow but sometimes all we need is a little understanding. Stay strong!

Re: up to day 48 21 Jul 2015 13:16 #259973

TalmidChaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 405 Karma: 22	You definitely have my support. And by asking for support, you're giving me support, which should give you back some more support. So, support dividends! We're all here for each other, and you're definitely not alone. And your accomplishments so far are inspirational to me. Remember all the people you're inspiring just by being here and talking to us.
	0% Tolerance and 100% Self-Forgiveness. Lo ba-shamayim hi Mellow out. Last Edit: 21 Jul 2015 13:18 by TalmidChaim.

Re: up to day 48 21 Jul 2015 13:41 #259978

lamplighter Current streak: 13 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 40 Karma: 6	describing your struggles might be a big help to overcome it! tell us more!
	all the best! ONE day at a time!! _ _ _ why is my name lamplighter? the answer is in the link below! youtu.be/iasAOfWA_4s