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TOPIC: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 8898 Views

SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 28 Aug 2009 21:06 #14688

Shmilu Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	I'm up to day 17 in my personal count! Where did my cheishek and elation disappear to, though? Rabboisai, pull me back up!
	Last Edit: by auctionacount.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 29 Aug 2009 18:33 #14702

the.guard Current streak: 697 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6436 Karma: 137	It's starts out as "so rewarding", then it becomes "so difficult", then it gets back to "so rewarding"! Stick it out to 90 days, you'll see for yourself! Read the attitude handbook for lots of great Chizuk and good attitude tips.
	Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest. Last Edit: by Help9898.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 30 Aug 2009 15:14 #14751

bardichev

GEVALDIIGGGGGGG

YOUR CHESHEK ??

YOU JUST REACHED THE NEXT LEVEL,CONGRATS

IF THE CHESHEK WAS HERE ALL THE TIME YOU WOULD HAVE NEVER FOUND THIS ADDICTION TO BEGIN WITH

NO WORK WITHOUT CHESHEK

YES MY GOOD FRIEND YOU WILL FEEL WITHDRAWEL SYMPTOMS,THAS NOOOOOOOORMAL

DO NOT TEST YOUR Y"H (YUP HE IS STILL THERE)

KEEP ON TRUCKING!!!

EVERY LITTLE THING YOU DO A VIEW YOU AVOID A CLICK YOU HOLD BACK ETC..

IS AN ATOM BOMB !!!!

b

Last Edit: by bm2.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 30 Aug 2009 22:23 #14822

Shmilu Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	Day 19, and I'm barely trudging along. It's that after the 1st 14 or something days when I had nary a temptation nor a subconscious dirty thought, images that were buried for years suddenly swam up. What's also a bit alarming is that what at Day 14 seemed as a fairly reachable goal -- the 90 day milestone -- suddenly seems to be almost impossible now. So far so good, though.
	Last Edit: by max19.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 31 Aug 2009 05:58 #14846

Momo Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1288 Karma: 3	Don't think about the big 90. Focus on the fact you have 18 (chai) days behind you. Take it one day at a time. Just for today, don't look or act out.
	Last Edit: by chanmilie.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 31 Aug 2009 11:13 #14869

the.guard Current streak: 697 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6436 Karma: 137	90 days is impossible for an addict. Even 2 days is. All we can do is ask Hashem for 24 hours of sobriety. Just like he gave us the Maan in the dessert each day anew, so that we should learn to trust Him. So it is with this. Ask Hashem for help and decide that no matter what happens, even if your tuches falls off, you won't act out today!
	Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest. Last Edit: by Username123.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 31 Aug 2009 14:04 #14899

bardichev

[quote90 days is impossible for an addict. Even 2 days is. All we can do is ask Hashem for 24 hours of sobriety. Just like he gave us the Maan in the dessert each day anew, so that we should learn to trust Him. So it is with this. Ask Hashem for help and decide that no matter what happens, even if your tuches falls off, you won't act out today!][/quote]

HEILIGE

ARE YOU SUUUUUUUURE YOU ARE NOT FROM NEW YORK?

Last Edit: by benyakov.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 31 Aug 2009 14:18 #14906

the.guard Current streak: 697 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6436 Karma: 137	I think I heard that expression from Dov once, and he's from NY
	Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest. Last Edit: by 1661smith.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 31 Aug 2009 22:29 #14998

Shmilu Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	Day 20: Thanks for the chizzuk, Holy Chevrah. Today was a much better day than the last couple of days. Was in JFK and saw a couple of triggers, but didn't dwell on them and moved on. . . My strategy is now to focus to finish Elul clean in preparation for R"H, then take it from there (Rosh HaShanah to Yom Kippur, and so on and so forth). Makes it more obtainable. . .
	Last Edit: by fineryid.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 31 Aug 2009 23:11 #15015

Shmilu Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	Okay, Chevrah, I made the move. Changed my username to my real name. Shmilu it is.
	Last Edit: by joeish.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 31 Aug 2009 23:43 #15019

Noorah BAmram Current streak: 3710 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 522 Karma: 8	Warmest welcome holy chaver shmilu, Mshane shem mshane mazal -name change = change of mazal may it be a Mazal Tov ;D Fervent prayers for your continued success Love Noorah
	[b]כי שבע יפול צדיק וקם[/b] A Tzadik is he who continues to bounce back after he hits bottom, even a hundred times !!!!!Rav Don Segal Shlita Last Edit: by allenf.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 01 Sep 2009 00:22 #15020

Shmilu Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	Thanks, Noorah. And Mazel Tov on your reaching the great milestone of 90 days B'Taharah. May HaShem help you to reach 90 times 90, which would amount to 22+ years. Hopefully by then you will have beaten the Y"H into oblivion. . .
	Last Edit: by Bochurtrying.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 01 Sep 2009 00:38 #15021

Noorah BAmram Current streak: 3710 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 522 Karma: 8	U r very kind thanks! I needed this bracha right now since @ the moment I'm debating if I should shout out one of my infamous crys of "Fire in the House of Amram" Today was a difficult day for me : (
	[b]כי שבע יפול צדיק וקם[/b] A Tzadik is he who continues to bounce back after he hits bottom, even a hundred times !!!!!Rav Don Segal Shlita Last Edit: by jayzahav.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 01 Sep 2009 00:47 #15022

Shmilu Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	Tomorrow a new day will be born, and be"h so will your resolve and "Fire" (Eishusuh D'Kedushah). Take me for instance: Yesterday was probably the shvachste of my 20 days (as I stated in my journal); today was one of my stronger ones to date. Had a couple of potential pitfalls in the airport and be"h overcame them. See?
	Last Edit: by 360gye.

Re: SoDifficult's quest for innocence and purity 01 Sep 2009 01:21 #15024

Noorah BAmram Current streak: 3710 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 522 Karma: 8	Thanks Tzadik for your words of encouragment I live in an area where there is very little immodesty and today I went "out" so I was "hit" with a large dose of "tests"!
	[b]כי שבע יפול צדיק וקם[/b] A Tzadik is he who continues to bounce back after he hits bottom, even a hundred times !!!!!Rav Don Segal Shlita Last Edit: by regopark.