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hello everybody! 09 Oct 2011 10:47 #121468

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Chevra. It took a neila but i'm here now and here to stay!
l'chaim
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: hello everybody! 09 Oct 2011 21:11 #121517

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Glad you're here.  Welcome.  If it took a neila, then you've bottomed out from on top.  Mazel tov.
Hatzlocho
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 02:09 #121541

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a neila is better that a nefila!! ;D ;D
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 03:15 #121547

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Bottomed out from on top? Can you explain that? it sounds deep...
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 03:29 #121551

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if u don't know what bottoming at the top is, you're missing the whole gye mission statement
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 04:10 #121557

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thanks for the encouragement everybody but...
i just fell
right after yom kippur
and a full day of telling myself that succos is rishon lecheshbon avonos and til then we're too busy
and i was busy-- until a certain time of the night i guess
help!!!!!!!!!
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 05:56 #121564

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Hit the ground running, chaver. Make new g'dorim and keep on fighting.
Baby steps.
If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas!

Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 15:04 #121606

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What's your recovery plan?
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 17:01 #121635

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hi TZ,
sorry to hear the fall. let it be a learning experience.
we need to be on guard, expect the worst and hope for the best.
and we need to be like the RBSO who shows זקנה ביום דין ובחרות ביום קרב
before the fall, during the fight we gotta be like a youth full of energy
but afterwards we gotta be like an old mellow fellow and not tie ourself up in knots castigating and thinking how bad and hopeless i am
as Rebbe B says, winning means staying in the game
stay in the game
you have a lot to offer, both to yourself and to us
as AlexEliezer put it:
we need a plan...
what can we do to improve out mindset, our precautions, our routine?

wishing you continued success
zs
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 19:14 #121652

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as Rebbe B says, winning means staying in the game
stay in the game


ahem

let's get this straight

as Rebbe B ALWAYS says, winning means staying in the game
NO MATTER WHAT!!!
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 19:16 #121653

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bardichev wrote on 10 Oct 2011 19:14:



as Rebbe B ALWAYS says, winning means staying in the game
NO MATTER WHAT!!!


gut gezugt!
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 20:59 #121668

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ok. time to put that old/ forgotten/ fallen by the wayside rule back into place
ABSOLUTELY NO COMPUTER AFTER 11 PM no matter how important or unimportant!
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 21:06 #121669

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Atta boy!
Baby steps.
If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas!

Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 21:29 #121673

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sounds good!
only thing i would say is that the kabola you made could use some teeth possibly. like what happens if you break the kabola?
maybe make a taphsic neder (are you familiar with that term?), for example if you do go on the computer late night then you will: do 100 pushups, knas yourself with no computer for 3 days, brush your teeth every half hour on the half hour, etc.
look in the Handbook for a full discussion of this idea
and remember this free advice is worth every penny you paid for it

bechol oifen
stick around and don't forget your GUITAR
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: hello everybody! 10 Oct 2011 23:48 #121695

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TehillimZugger wrote on 10 Oct 2011 03:29:

if u don't know what bottoming at the top is, you're missing the whole gye mission statement


Mr. Tehillim Zugger: I read the entire GYE "about us" and handbook and i still don't know what "bottoming out from the top" means. Out of the kindness of your heart can you please explain it. If i am totally missing the whole point of GYE i would greatly appreciate if you set me back on track.
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