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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 24 Sep 2009 23:26 #20356

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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 25 Sep 2009 02:47 #20374

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Dear Holy,

You're an inspiration!  Lifnei Hashem Titharu!!
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 30 Sep 2009 20:31 #21113

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Hi guys I am back from Yeshiva. I am with the help and kindness of Hashem over 50 days clean. For the first time in my life I feel that I have the possibility of control. I do not say control because I need to keep my guard up, stick to my rules avoid danger and most of all keep focused on fulfilling things.

My new friends here have added so much to my life. You have changed how I view the world. Unfortunately many of us make judgments about other Jews based on their clothing or other shallow criteria. I know that the peolpe on this site are from all the different 'kinds' of observant Yiddeshkiett. I feel allot of warmth for many people here for all the help they have given me. Since I do not know who you really are when I walk down the street and see someone different than myself  I wonder maybe they are one of the people I care so much about and who have given me so much. These thought have forced me to reassess how I look at the whole idea that there are fractions of Frum Yiddishkeitt.

Thank you for everything.
זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 30 Sep 2009 22:53 #21236

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GEVALDIGGG!!

THANK YOU!!

And don't make it sound like we're saying goodbye just yet!
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 30 Sep 2009 23:08 #21239

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It is not a good bye it is a hello. I haven't posted in ages.
זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 30 Sep 2009 23:12 #21241

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well then, HELLO!
and we look forward to hangin over bain hazmanim...
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 30 Sep 2009 23:45 #21248

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I hope the days of hanging semi lifeless over the computer are behind me.
זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 01 Oct 2009 01:11 #21260

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My new friends here have added so much to my life. You have changed how I view the world. Unfortunately many of us make judgments about other Jews based on their clothing or other shallow criteria. I know that the peolpe on this site are from all the different 'kinds' of observant Yiddeshkiett. I feel allot of warmth for many people here for all the help they have given me. Since I do not know who you really are when I walk down the street and see someone different than myself  I wonder maybe they are one of the people I care so much about and who have given me so much. These thought have forced me to reassess how I look at the whole idea that there are fractions of Frum Yiddishkeitt.



well  said
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 01 Oct 2009 01:57 #21267

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you don't have a poem for the occasion?
זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 01 Oct 2009 16:22 #21433

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I walk round happy as can be
For you should know I am in GYE
We are all involved in that battle together
Each clean day, in our hat another feather
Hey, look at him, where is this guy’s hat?
He can’t walk around just like that?
One second, maybe he is one of the fighters?
Those strong people, no little blighters?
Could he be the one to who I turn?
When in my heart I feel the YH burn?
Look at this holy Yiddishe face
With in his heart sooo much space
Under this little capple, is that the big brain?
The one that gives me shelter from nisyonos rain?
Oh, my heart fills with warmth and love till the brim
I should really go over and maybe thank him
I am really ashamed to approach a stranger just like that
But I appreciate you all the same, with or without the hat



How is that for a beginner? :-[
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 01 Oct 2009 16:28 #21438

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Holy Yid wrote on 30 Sep 2009 23:45:

I hope the days of hanging semi lifeless over the computer are behind me.


I hear. So, we can hang lively.
After all, it is Sukkos!!

And G38,
you're all over today!
Great poem!
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 02 Oct 2009 02:14 #21678

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Thanks for the poem
זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 02 Oct 2009 12:37 #21714

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Holy Yid wrote on 30 Sep 2009 20:31:

My new friends here have added so much to my life. You have changed how I view the world. Unfortunately many of us make judgments about other Jews based on their clothing or other shallow criteria. I know that the people on this site are from all the different 'kinds' of observant Yiddishkiet. I feel allot of warmth for many people here for all the help they have given me. Since I do not know who you really are when I walk down the street and see someone different than myself  I wonder maybe they are one of the people I care so much about and who have given me so much. These thought have forced me to reassess how I look at the whole idea that there are fractions of Frum Yiddishkiet.
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Dearest Tzadik.

Great post! KUTGW!!

I have the very same thoughts many times since I joined this holy forum. This has caused me to challenge my own prejudices born out of stereotyping people.  

Your point is very well articulated!


Awesome love to a great Talmud Chacham and fellow warrior,

Noorah
[b]כי שבע יפול צדיק וקם[/b] 
A Tzadik is he who continues to  bounce back after he hits bottom, even a hundred times !!!!!Rav Don Segal Shlita
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 02 Oct 2009 14:17 #21729

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HY: you're really on to something here...this is virtual land...the land of the fake (and the flake, but thats another issue)...Uri is not a person he is an algorithm...its all 1s and 0s, right? The real world is people in $1500 suits and the New York Post at every doorstep, right? The real world is reported upon by CNN and Foxnews, right?

WRONG!!!

The fake world is L. Ron Hubbard and all his clones...the fake world is all those smiley-glad hands with their hidden agendas...the fake world tells you that "m" is "part of a healthy lifestyle"...like those cereal commericals (part of this complete breakfast)...they tell you its good for you! and "p"? "p" is not an addiction that is tearing apart the world! "p" is part of a "multibillion dollar entertainment industry"! it is streamed into your home and into your life...no, my friends, this world is UPSIDE DOWN!! the war that is brewing here, that is the REAL world...fighting to bring gds will back to Earth, that is the real world and the friends here, that is the real world...we are happy when sturggle survives another day, overjoyed when letakain gets engaged and saddned when someone else is sad..we reach out our hands and pull em back up...so yes, HY, you are right...what we've been taught: to look at the jew and place a label based on type of yarmulke and length of hair...not so real...the real desire to fulfill gds commandments that goes on here...VERY REAL...

chag sameach

keep fighting
ratm
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Re: new guy strating out/ bain hazimanim is my hard point 02 Oct 2009 16:46 #21770

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Rage,

This is a very timely thought. Succos is a time when Chazal say leave our permanent dwelling and go into a temporary dwelling. One explanation of the message we should take from this comment is that we leave the values of the materialistic world behind and we live the knowledge that what the world values has no value. Rather the real value in the world is to sit in the shadow of Hashem.

Gut Yom Tov to all
זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים
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