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Out of Town Sponsors 10 May 2009 23:08 #4864

DuvidChaim

Does Guard your Eyes have a position on Out of Town Sponsors?

I have made a strong kesher with a participant from NJ and I live in TX. We have been working the steps almost everyday and making real progress.

Yet, there are those in his local SA Group that are telling him he should have an "in-town" sponsor. I personally have sponsored a number of people by phone and even those sponsees of mine that live in my city do most of our work over the phone.

What do you think?

Thanks
DuvidChaim

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Re: Out of Town Sponsors 11 May 2009 03:48 #4866

Ineedhelp!! OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1058 Karma: 2	What do sponsors do?
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Re: Out of Town Sponsors 17 May 2009 21:02 #5029

Ezra512	B"H I am from NJ, so I am willing to be of assistance till I leave for yeshiva in Eretz Yisroel at the end of August
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Re: Out of Town Sponsors 17 May 2009 21:03 #5030

Ezra512	B"H I don't know what it all entails though so I need it explained before I can fully sign on. Ezra
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Re: Out of Town Sponsors 18 May 2009 15:25 #5048

aaron4	I realize this is not responsive to the original question but I'm from NJ too. I'd be happy to sponsor but prefer e-mail to phone since I'm at work most of the day and phone conversations carry pretty easily.
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Re: Out of Town Sponsors 24 Jun 2009 15:57 #7247

Lechayim Current streak: 5 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 169 Karma: 2	I believe an out of town sponsor may be better in a way because i can be more open to them knowingly that their far away from me or don't know me personally.
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Re: Out of Town Sponsors 24 Jun 2009 18:57 #7288

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	Someone who knows you personally is always a better option when possible, since there's an added element of accountability. But for a sponsor like Duvid Chaim, I'd pick an out-of-town sponsor any day!
	Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest. Last Edit: by .

Re: Out of Town Sponsors 29 Jun 2009 03:56 #7598

elya k
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Re: Out of Town Sponsors 09 Nov 2009 20:31 #27417

aaron
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