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Hurving in lernen 23 Jan 2025 20:36 #429992

iseenoevil OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 12 Karma: 7	The main thing that has worked for me is being areingeton. When I’m into the sugya I get no urges. Havent seen anybody discuss it but that was always stressed over the years.

Re: Hurving in lernen 24 Jan 2025 03:23 #430020

altehmirrer Current streak: 67 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 102	Amazing keep it up! just curious how long are you clean for? and also btw which sugya?

Re: Hurving in lernen 26 Jan 2025 03:07 #430146

iseenoevil OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 12 Karma: 7	53 days. tukfoy kohayn

Re: Hurving in lernen 26 Jan 2025 20:13 #430210

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I find that when I get into bed to go to sleep and the fantasies start creeping into my head, I can instead think of a kushya I have in the sugya I'm learning or even rethink the sugya to see if I'm missing something that I missed (like a "why" פארוואס question) and that is a proper substitute to the urge. It takes only a slight amount of willpower, and works especially well if I need to have a kushya for shiur.

When 2 yidden get together, it is two nefesh elokis (godly souls) against one nefesh hebehamis (animal soul)
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Re: Hurving in lernen 26 Jan 2025 20:26 #430216

iseenoevil OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 12 Karma: 7	That had worked for me as well. Sometimes I review the shakla vetarya of the sugya

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